** In "Alive", it is written: "People, no matter how much they suffer when they are alive, they will think of a way to comfort themselves when they are about to die." ”Retirement means leaving the workplace and returning to a free and easy life, and it also means getting old and getting closer to the end of life.
The rest of your life is not long, how to spend your old age in peace? We must not resign ourselves to fate, but enjoy the arrangement of fate. Whether life is good or not is not determined by life itself, but by your state of mind.
Enjoying life, relaxing, and accepting everything calmly is the best way to live.
Enjoy the fruits of your struggle and spend your retirement money well.
I like the saying: "The one who can spend money and make money is the happiest, because he enjoys two kinds of pleasures." ”You must understand that not all old people can retire as they wish, and there are always some old people who have lived a life of farming all their lives. If you think about it that way, you will have a sense of superiority.
Retired people are actually desperately making money in the first half and slowly spending money in the second half. At the moment, you can get a pension, in fact, it is the result of your hard work.
Think of spending money as a "pension" to enjoy, and your mindset will be different. It's one thing to have more money and less money, it's another thing to spend it. As long as you don't live a life of luxury, happiness will always stay in life.
Enjoy the fireworks of the family and run three meals a day.
Some people describe the life of old age as "one room for two people, three meals and four seasons". That is to say, retired people, their children have grown up, and they have also gone away.
An old couple goes to the street every day to buy groceries, and when they go home to cook and eat together, life is very simple. If you don't learn to enjoy it, it's going to be very uncomfortable.
Writer Wang Zengqi wrote in the article: "If you drink bean juice often, you will be addicted. The poor people in Beijing drink bean juice, and some people also like to drink it. Mei Lanfang's family once went outside every afternoon to bring a pot of bean juice, and the whole family drank a bowl of it. ”A bowl of bean juice, in the eyes of ordinary people, is nothing special, but in the writer's pen, it is a story, an elegant text.
Those who will enjoy life will study "life" from the day they retire and improve the fireworks of their families. Roll out the dumpling skin seriously, make the dumplings, and wait for the children to come home to taste; Make a dish of mapo tofu and add homemade condiments; To boil a bowl of porridge, use a warm fire, not a high fire. As long as you observe carefully, you will find that the originally simple three meals a day have become colorful.
Enjoy the solitude and learn to get along with yourself.
Retired, from then on, "people go to tea and cool", no longer have a certain position, no friends who trade interests, and even relatives who ask you for help are gone.
Children have their own small families, and they can't be with you every day. Husband and wife have been together for a lifetime, but in the end, there is also the trouble of one person leaving first and one person leaving. There will be fewer and fewer friends of the same age and elderly elders.
Loneliness is always inevitable.
Jiang Xun said: "You don't have to think about how to eliminate loneliness, you can think about how to complete loneliness, how to give loneliness, how to respect loneliness, and live peacefully with loneliness." ”When a person is very old, he will understand: the person who has been with you the longest is not someone else, but "you".
In the twilight of life, just like the cold winter, as long as you open up the worries in your heart and seriously perceive them, you will understand that "hanging from each other" is also a way of life, and it can also be poetic.
Learn to enjoy solitude, and your soul will become full, and you will not be afraid of where you want to go in life.
Enjoy the romance of an old couple, pursue poetry and distance.
Many people, as soon as they retire, start their travel plans. While you still have to move, look around. Husbands and wives keep each other company, and everywhere they go, they can leave a beautiful picture.
In fact, romance is an element, and poetry and distance are an ideal life. In any case, we can't measure every scenery with our feet.
Painter Huang Yongyu, when he was the most difficult time in his life, his wife was always by his side to accompany and encourage. "Our love is as tenacious as our lives," he said. ”
When life got better, Huang Yongyu said: "Because of you, the world will spread the story of my happiness and that of my children." ”
When the husband and wife grew old, Huang Yongyu left this line in the painting: "There are three huts, I sit and stand." There is a wife, she is on the left, and she is on the right. ”It is not difficult to find that true romance can be had anytime and anywhere, even if it is a grass nest, it can also be wet; A mound in the vegetable garden, that is, the four seasons of the year.
When you're at work, you don't have time to take good care of your lover; If you are retired, then increase your investment in love, and live up to it.
Enjoy the ordinariness of life and give up all desires.
I have seen such a feeling: In ordinary days, we live peacefully. Our heart, which has been polished by life, is a little numb, and sighs for a long time the ruthlessness of the years and the twists and turns of fate.
There is nothing special about people who can surpass the ordinary, it's just that they have shaken hands with the "ordinary".
used to be arrogant and said "I want to be a scientist and become a rich man", but after going around in circles, I found that I was an ordinary person, and then I became an ordinary retired old man.
There are always people who, after retirement, still toss themselves. It is not impossible to toss the people who succeed, but the probability is very small. There are always some old people, because of lack of greed, but fall into the routine of "greedy for small and cheap and big losses".
There are times in life that you must have, and there are times in life when you don't force it", accept the arrangement of fate, and the second half of your life has been ordinary, and you will have the blessing of being safe in this world.
Writer Su Hei wrote in "Cultivating Love": "To live is to work, to live every day, every moment, in the details of life." ”Life is always not good or bad, if you have good in your heart, life is good, and vice versa.
After retirement, we can only think about fate like this: although we can't reach it, our hearts yearn for it. Think of hope as a direction, not a requirement.
To live is to live a good life, don't toss around, don't think too much.
You must understand that life is not bitter, but the heart is hard.