In relationships, women tend to be more emotional, while men are much more rational. Therefore, when women are faced with feelings, they are often confused by some of the man's behavior. But men are different from women, men tend to be more direct in their relationships, if they like someone, they will take the initiative to pursue each other, and if they don't like someone, they will not deliberately hide it. So when men start to get tired of you, it's time for you to pay attention. 
No longer reach out to youIn the past, no matter how busy you were, he would take the initiative to message you, but now he doesn't take the initiative to message you anymore. Because he doesn't love you anymore, he's not interested in everything about you. This is the case with a friend of mine, who has been with her boyfriend for more than two years, and during those two years, her boyfriend takes the initiative to message her almost every day and responds in a timely manner no matter how busy she is. But recently, there have been some problems in the relationship between the two of them, and the man has begun to stop taking the initiative to contact her. 
And whenever a friend talks to him about it, the man looks like he doesn't care. But when the friend took the initiative to ask about the man, the man became very impatient. Therefore, women must understand that when a man starts to get tired of you, he will take the initiative to contact you less and less. Because he doesn't love you anymore, he won't take the initiative to look for you. 
No more shouting at youMen are very rational, they will take the initiative to pursue each other if they like a person, and they will reject each other in time if they don't like a person. So when a man starts to get tired of you, he starts to become cold. At this time, all your concern will not be taken to heart. I still remember when I was in college, my roommate Xiaoyu used to talk to me in the dormitory because she and her boyfriend were in a long-distance relationship. Every time she chats with me, her boyfriend will shush her and ask for warmth, no matter what kind of message Xiaoyu sends, her boyfriend will reply as soon as possible, even if Xiaoyu says in the dormitory that she needs to wear more clothes when it is cold, he will immediately buy new clothes for Xiaoyu. At that time, Xiaoyu was really good to her boyfriend, so every time something happened, he would take the initiative to tell Xiaoyu. Then one day, Xiaoyu found out that her boyfriend was with someone else. Since then, Xiaoyu has rarely talked to me, and every time she sees me, she looks very indifferent. Until one night, she suddenly messaged me and said let's break up. At that moment, I realized that her boyfriend had long since disliked her. 
No more respect for youRespect is the most important thing for two people to get along, if a man does not respect you, it means that he has begun to get tired of you. In fact, this is a very simple truth, we can empathize with it, if you have a person next to you, he always gets along with you in a condescending manner, and even shouts at you. Then I guess this person must not really love you. We can imagine that if a man really loves you, then he will definitely respect your opinions and ideas, because he knows that loving someone requires his own attitude. 
If a man always puts himself in a high position in his heart, then it can only mean that he is tired of you. Love is mutual, and when you spend a lot of time together, the other person will definitely become more and more impatient. So if you want to stay with a man for a long time, then don't be too hard and harsh on him. After all, it's one of the manifestations that he loves you.