You've ever imagined that one day you suddenly found that your table mate felt different about you.
You notice that every time you speak, there is a different light in his or her eyes, or when you need help, he or she is always the first to step up.
That subtle heartbeat always makes you remember the evening.
But things don't always happen this way, and it takes a little skill and strategy.
If you're wondering how, read on, these six tips might just skyrocket your popularity on that double bench!
Smile, because there is no trouble in this world that cannot be solved by a smile.
If there is, then laugh twice.
There will always be problems, but when you face them with an optimistic attitude and greet others with a bright face, your world will be different.
Especially when you're across from someone who shares a desk with you, a smile can be the key to opening your heart.
Imagine you walk into a classroom with your table bowed down and attacking a math puzzle, and you can choose to sit down silently or break the silence of the morning with a smile and say "good morning."
Look at him She looked up, the corners of her mouth were raised with a look of surprise, at that moment, you were not only at the same table, but also the person who brought him and her happiness.
Have you ever been in such a situation?
When you talk about your sorrow or joy, you find that the person on the other side has a wandering look in his eyes, obviously absent-minded.
It feels like a cup of coffee that has been cold on a winter day, losing its original temperature and taste.
But if you are willing to listen to the speech of the tablemate, whether it is the love of a book, the obsession with a certain movie, or the confusion about the future, as long as you are willing to listen, he and she will realize: There is a person by my side who is willing to walk slowly with me in this fast-paced world.
So what to do? Tell him with your eyes that you are listening, with a nod you tell him that she is understanding, and with words tell him that she is caring.
When he or she is lost, give comfort; When he or she is happy, share the joy.
In this way, your score quietly increases in the hearts of your tablemates.
On the eve of the exam, he forgot to bring the calculator, which is the perfect time to hand over your spare calculator;
On a winter morning, he and her are shaking without gloves, and this is the perfect time for you to hand over a cup of hot milk tea.
Thoughtfulness is not a sculptural silence, but a heart-warming little poem that quietly slides into people's hearts.
How do you show thoughtfulness? Actually, it's really not complicated.
When the pen of the tablemate fell to the ground, he bent down to pick it up and gave it back to her;
She rushed out of the classroom to go to the bathroom, and she kept an eye out for any teachers around her.
Or when the bell rings at the end of class, you quietly watch for him and her if she needs help.
These small actions are just bits and pieces of daily life, but the warm net they weave is enough to add a layer of soft warmth to the soul on a cold winter day.
When you show your thoughtfulness, there's no need to make a loud announcement, let alone talk about it.
Make everything seem natural and real, as if you are used to caring about him and her, and this naturalness and realism is more powerful than any well-designed plot.
Do you want to be a "superhero" in the eyes of your tablemates?
You don't need to put on a cloak or carry a magic wand with you – all you need to do is lend a hand when you need it.
Just like the person who always delivers answers in time when you are confused, his image will become incomparably greater and more brilliant in your heart.
For example, when he or she is struggling with an experiment, you can subtly point out the correct way to use the equipment, or when the teacher assigns a math problem that is difficult to solve, you can discuss and exchange ideas together.
This kind of interaction has invisibly built a bridge that belongs only to you.
Your help should be as delicate as the spring rain, without being reserved and at the same time not too conspicuous, so that all the help seems just right, naturally, without any utilitarianism.
Now, let's skip the help step lightly and immerse ourselves in the sea of conversations between tablemates.
Finding common interests is the secret to speeding up your relationship**.
That's because the common hobby is a bridge deep in the heart, which connects you and the hearts of each other at the same table.
Whether it's the pursuit of the latest issue of a manga, the obsession with a certain popular game, or even the shared love of a song, it's enough to make your conversation as cheerful and passionate as a collision of marbles.
Having a common language will invisibly bring your hearts closer.
Try to talk about a topic that interests both of you outside of class, maybe it's the latest campus news, maybe it's a movie that's about to be screened.
Open the door to your conversation with empathy, and then witness how your relationship deepens in a lighthearted atmosphere.
Let's talk about the last and most important one: respect.
No matter how the relationship develops, this is the golden rule in all human interactions.
Respect the choice of tablemates, space, and even silence.
This shows that you understand that everyone is an individual with their own ideas and boundaries.
Adhering to the code of respect is like building a safe fence in your relationship, which not only protects each of your private gardens but also provides a sense of security.
Respect is to say, "Look, there's plenty of room for you, and when you're willing to open your heart, I'll be here, waiting." ”
Respect creates an environment of equality and harmony for each other, where both parties feel comfortable, and is an indispensable cornerstone of a long-lasting relationship.
At the end of the day, these six tricks can make your relationship more intimate and make your image in the heart of others and others.
And that's enough to make every day on campus full of surprises and surprises.
Don't forget, love may not be forced, but favorability can definitely be cultivated.
Are you ready to start working on it? Is there any other unique tip of your own that you haven't tried?
You can share it, let's make campus life more fun together!