Behind the pet fever , the emotions of contemporary young people need more warmth in wordless compa

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-03-01

Original Seeking the Heart Society.

A-Yao has not returned to her hometown for two consecutive years because of the epidemic, and she can finally go home for the New Year this year, but she is worried because of the pet dog at home, A-Yao and her boyfriend raised a golden retriever dog - Doudou, raised for more than two years, and is now a larger dog, it takes more than ten days to go back to her hometown, Doudou is too big to take away, originally wanted to be fostered at a friend's house, and was worried that it would cause trouble to a friend, and finally the two discussed fostering in a pet store near their home, and the two of them could finally go home with peace of mind.

After the Chinese New Year, Ah Yao went to pick up Doudou as soon as possible, and Doudou saw that Ah Yao was very excited, and her tail kept wagging her tail. On the way home, Doudou kept pooping, and the two felt that something was not quite right, guessing that Doudou might be locked up for a long time without a chance to let it go. Because A-Yao likes to be clean on weekdays, Doudou trained to poop outdoors when she was a child, and A-Yao carried a garbage bag with her to facilitate the disposal of poop. Thinking of Doudou being locked in a cage for more than ten days, A-Yao was very distressed and couldn't help crying.

Beanie was a gift from her boyfriend on her birthday, and she was a little cub when she first arrived. Ah Yao and her boyfriend both came to the city from other places to work, and they usually don't have many friends except for each other, and since they have Doudou, they both feel that the house they rent is more like a home. Watching it grow day by day, A-Yao felt very happy.

Young people in the city are very fond of having a pet, and behind the bustle and bustle of the city, everyone needs a companionship, and pets have become this companionship. They write each other's own stories in different people's lives, and the meaning of pets for people is also changing, from being a caretaker to a close companion, highlighting more and more emotional value.

According to Maslow's theory of needs, after an individual has met his basic needs and security needs, the need for love follows. With the development of modern industrialization, human beings have created unprecedented material resources, and the great abundance of materials has enabled individuals to better meet their basic needs - food, clothing, shelter and transportation. Our country is one of the safest countries in the world today, and people can go for a walk in the park near their home after work, after dinner, or even go home in the early hours of the morning without worrying about safety.

The need for love has become the biggest emotional gap among contemporary young people, although the rapid development of the economy has brought great material abundance, but also brought many problems, such as trust between people, the ability to love others, the courage to give emotionally, etc., which have brought challenges to people's emotional needs. Everyone does not dare to give their sincerity easily, dare not give their love to one person, and do not want to compromise easily in order to avoid loneliness.

These questions do not stop the desire for companionship, loneliness is the most terrible feeling in the world. Even though we are now in the age of the internet, the virtual world does not provide the emotional needs that the real world needs. The appearance of pets has alleviated this dilemma, cute and arrogant cats, docile and intelligent dogs, and lively hamsters are all small animals that everyone loves; Of course, there are also some friends who love cold and quiet ectothermic animals, such as lizards, snakes, fish, turtles, and so on. They appear in small homes in the city, giving people companionship and warmth.

With them, when you come home after a hard day's work, you can see them when you turn on the light, and you no longer feel lonely in your heart, and there is a fresh life waiting for you to return home. Such a companion does not have to worry about betrayal, deception, and harm! It's so reassuring, "wordless companionship is more warm".

No need to please! No need to be accommodating! No need to cater to! No need to be perfunctory! There's no better place to get along. Therefore, everyone who truly loves small animals does not regard them as a pet, but as a family member, and they deserve to be carefully protected.

Schopenhauer once said that "restrained love is the most sincere love", and everyone should also maintain restraint while loving them, and try not to cause trouble and harm to others when they go out. We have to give them a certain amount of freedom, and while loving them, we must not forget that they are animals, not people. It has its own natural habits, try not to raise them purely according to personal preferences, but to get along with them on the basis of understanding their natural habits.

True love is not control, it is respect.

Popular science tip: ectotherms, also known as cold-blooded animals, their body temperature will change with the change of ambient temperature. Such as reptiles, amphibians and fish. Common ectotherms are fish, lizards, snakes, frogs, turtles. They are also very popular pets.

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