Have you noticed that whether in life or at work, there are always some people who love to complain, and they especially like to tell others about their suffering, as if they have dredged and detoxified the meridians all over their body after speaking.
This kind of behavior can be very offensive.
Especially during the Spring Festival, relatives return to their hometown from all directions, get together, and start complaining without saying a few words.
What kind of money is hard to make, how hard the boss is on himself. Others directly complained about their relatives, who only went home once a year and complained for seven days at a time.
For example, as long as we take a walk in the community, we can always hear all kinds of family trivialities, all kinds of complaints and gossip, the content is similar and repeated every day, and the people who talk about it are still happy.
If you don't know how to refuse, stop and listen to other people's confiding and complaints, others will complain about it, but your precious time will be taken and plundered, which is extremely not worth it!
Yuzu, I advise you to stay away from these trivial things, trivial people, and if you happen to run into them, simply change your walk to a run!
After you go and listen to these people chew their tongues and complain, an hour or two has passed, and nothing has been found, and I have used these two hours to code thousands of words, and I have reviewed and output today's thoughts and thoughts.
There is no point in complaining.
Don't take the time to listen to other people's complaints, and don't try to complain to anyone in the heat of the moment. Uncover the scars and show them to others, who will only feel disgusted.
No one will really empathize with you, or bring you any good. After all, in this world, except for the relationship of interests, in fact, the essence is a weak relationship, dispensable, if it has caused you a bad influence, it is better to have none.
Talking excessively is actually a kind of psychological deprivation, a kind of demand. If you don't provide benefits to others, but you keep asking for the emotional value of others, this thing can't last long, or even can't ask for it at all, and it will attract the contempt of others.
Constantly complaining is also a kind of weak thinking, they are self-pitying, resting on their laurels, and they love to complain about all kinds of bad things, and they all attribute it to other people's faults and bad circumstances. It never occurred to me that complaining was a mistake in itself.
This kind of person is highly sensitive to the outside world, and it can even be said that he is too sensitive, and he can affect himself in trivial matters. They are most likely losers in real life, depressed and passive, and even depressed.
Yuzu: I used to have a colleague who was this kind of person, who complained every day that the leader did something wrong and that did it unfairly. As everyone knows, there is no such thing as a bowl of water in this world, and after complaining for a long time, the fake has become true.
Stop complaining immediately and stay away from those who complain.
To stop complaining, we must change our mindset and mindset from the inside out. Continuously update your cognition from the inside out, and continue to grow and improve. Cultivating the mind, cultivating, cultivating.
No one's life is smooth sailing, everyone has a lot of unsatisfactory places, big aspects, high housing prices, low wages, fast pace of life, small aspects of every family has a difficult scripture. These people are going through it.
What's the point of complaining? Others are going through this, so why take the time to listen to your complaints? If you spend all your time complaining, then how can you have the energy to think, to review, to change?
In particular, there are some poor people who say, every day, "Oh, I don't have any money." Oops, that's what I do.
Hearing such words, seeing such people, I will immediately stay away. As for you, I ask you to turn around and walk away immediately. Never talk to them, and never respond to other people's complaints. so as not to affect their own energy field.
Accepting his complaints will affect your own luck. Affect your psyche, affect your mindset, and let you be pulled into the same vortex of negative energy.
The weak complain about the sky, and the strong lie down and taste the courage.
The poor complain pessimistically. And you have to be self-determined. Do what you should do, live every moment to the fullest, keep learning, and keep improving.
Over time, if you look back, the complaining people are still poor and miserable. But you keep improving, and even reach a new stage of cognition.
Don't lose yourself in listening to others' complaints. Even if you understand him, stay away from him.
Get out of the mindset of constant complaining and use your actions to get out of that negative energy field. Save your energy, focus on your own improvement and the growth of your wealth, and welcome the day when you can spread your wings.