Xu Yajun's father passed away, and Xiao S and Xu Yajun both went to the mourning hall to mourn.
In the past few days, there have been a lot of ** reports on the "indecent love" between Xiao S and Xu Yajun's father, and Xiao S has not had time to clarify.
I'm not interested in whether she and her father-in-law are playing well.
I'm more interested in: Why didn't Xiao S get divorced?
It's normal to ask this question, right?
In everyone's eyes, Xiao S is an excellent Taiwanese variety show host (regardless of character), she has super ability to control the scene, and her comfort level is 10 Aya higher than Xie Na.
But in such a new era, a beautiful woman with independent financial ability is raising a child with a cheating.
3. A man who has an illegitimate child and does not have very good business ability - Xu Yajun does not let go.
What exactly is Xiao S?
All girls will hate it and be angry with it!
Thinking about it deeply, Xiao S's lively and humorous and bold style in the show makes us think that she has a free and brave soul.
We would have defined her as:A super new woman with a sense of independence.
But in fact, Xiao S is actually a woman with a sense of feudal tradition under the patriarchy.
Don't look at her acting and speaking so boldly on the show, but she is a "vulgar spicy" in life!
After she broke up with Huang Zijiao, she cursed Huang Zijiao, Huang Zijiao's career plummeted, and later she suffered in the show, saying that she would no longer blame Huang Zijiao and wish him happiness;
She made a joke about Wu Qingfeng at the award ceremony, saying that Wu Qingfeng was like a girl, and her mother was chirping, but after the award ceremony, she cried late at night, called Wu Qingfeng, and sent countless messages to Wu Qingfeng not to blame her, she knew it was wrong;
She, like Big S, often bullies Aya and doesn't give Aya face when she speaks, but she occasionally takes care of Aya's feelings, and she will be afraid that Aya will really ignore her.
In short, Xiao S actually has a certain pleasing personality on his body, and there are a lot of them.
So, why didn't she get divorced?
This starts with several aspects.
Xiao S's original single-parent family makes Xiao S even more eager to have a complete family.
Xiao S is the third child in the family, under normal circumstances, parents have already given birth to two daughters, if it is not for the desire for a son, she will not have another child, so Xiao S is a child born under the feelings of the parents to place their sons.
Her real name is Xu Xidi, which means to stop having a son.
The mother shouted at her husband, "I won't give birth anymore!" ”
When I was a child, Xiao S's appearance was not outstanding, there were delicious and fun things at home, and the eldest sister was given priority, Xu Xiyuan was a person who was particularly good at fighting for her own interests, so Xu Xiyuan would not suffer.
Only Xiao S, as the youngest child, is often overlooked.
So in Xiao S's heart, she longs to have a family led by her.
Once she has it, she won't give up easily.
Xiao S's personality is very immature, he was taught by his mother and Big S before he got married, and he was trained by his mother-in-law and husband after he got married.
Watching the show, we can see that Xiao S respects Da S very much, and their "Seven Fairy Sisters" is also headed by Da S, Da S's ideas and orders are not blasphemous, and Xiao S and others are followers.
Da S is a person with a strong sense of self, but many of her remarks are actually outrageous, and she exposes very crooked views.
Da S said: "Some producers are outrageous, and they even let me play Wang Dalu's mother." ”
Big S said: "I must buy and buy, buy luxury goods, because if I don't spend my money after marriage, I will use it to raise my husband as a mistress, so what else can I save money for?" ”
Big S will directly taunt Aya and the others: "Aya, you are the most unfashionable person among us, and your face is very dirty." ”
Wait, Big S is a person with three very strange views, many people with extremely selfish views, and Xiao S and Big S spend more time together than with any family member, teacher and classmate, so Xiao S is deeply influenced by Big S.
So much so that most of Xiao S's three views came from Big S.
The incorrect three views are definitely guiding the incorrect life.
Xiao S is the little sister of xd and **party, and she feels lucky to be able to marry a wealthy businessman with a little money.
Moreover, Xiao S is pregnant before marriage, Xu Yajun's family is not an advanced family, but a closed traditional family, so Xiao S married in with a low profile.
According to Huang Zijiao, when he and Xiao S were dating, they went to South Korea with Big S and played with the bald Cool Dragon.
Xiao S and they will threaten Huang Zijiao with K medicine and injections.
Don't look at the artist who is glamorous on the surface, but actually loses it.
Xiao S is not a famous family, nor is she a lady, so she was with Xu Yajun, who was still a little powerful at the time, and she thought she was very lucky.
Even when Xu Yajun and Xiao S got married, Big S said ruthlessly: "If Mike doesn't treat my sister well, I will find the black to break your legs." ”
On the one hand, these words reveal that the interpersonal relationship between big and small s is really chaotic, and on the other hand, these words are slapped in the face.
Xu Yajun really didn't treat Xiao S well, but his legs are still healthy and safe.
Xiao S gave birth to 3 daughters for Xu Yajun, although according to Luoya Mei in "Kangxi is Coming", she has never seen Xiao S change diapers for any child, but after the passage of time, Xiao S still loves her three daughters very much.
Xiao S always felt that he owed Xu Yajun's family.
Taiwan's concept of the door is really deep-rooted, Yi Nengjing has not been recognized by Yu Chengqing's mother for a long time, no matter how good Xiao S's work ability is, he has earned a lot of popularity for the Xu family and opened a store. But not giving birth to a son made Xiao S feel guilty.
And I played so crazy in the early years, rich and noble people with some money would dislike this kind of woman, right?
People who don't have money will also dislike it).
The unborn boy, as well as the weakness of his family background, is that Xiao S is very inferior in Xu Yajun's family.
Xiao S said in "Kangxi is Coming" that her mother-in-law was very good to her, and she was very moved. When Cai Kangyong repeatedly asked his mother-in-law what was good, Xiao S said that he worked overtime until late at night, and his mother-in-law left a soup for Xiao S, and the note read: "The soup is reserved for Xu Xidi, and no one else can drink it." ”
is such a small act, which moved Xiao S thankfully, it is enough to see how humble Xiao S is!
It's like she's a loveless child.
Children who lack love are even less likely to get divorced.
No matter how imperfect a marriage is in front of her, she feels that it is the only straw she can deserve.
Sorrowful.
Taiwan Province is a place of indulgence under male play, a gutter captured by male consciousness.
In Taiwanese variety shows, it is often seen that male and female variety shows make first-class jokes, whether it is a variety show that specializes in the study of gender relations, or a popular variety show, Taiwanese people dare to speak.
Sometimes, however, words are not something that can be said if you dare to say them.
They didn't take any social responsibility and didn't think about whether a schoolboy was watching their show?
Under the gaze of some stinking men, they opened their mouths to joke, and some of the ladies also came to echo it, shamelessly.
In this part of Taiwan Province, there are many women who have become accustomed to this social status, and they have even rationalized these vulgar men.
Feng Siqi's First Love Paradise is such a story: a girl is violated by a man, and the girl must convince herself to fall in love with a man before she feels that she is not ugly.
Very sad for a consciousness.
And Xiao S is like this, she thinks it's normal for men to steal outside, because there are many men like this, the red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside.
I believe Wang Xiaofei's revelations.
Xu Yajun even raised ** and raised illegitimate children outside, but Xiao S still blindly tolerated and forgave Xu Yajun.
Xiao S said in the show that she and her husband discussed whether to have an open marriage, but in fact, Xiao S and Xu Yajun were already in an open marriage.
Xiao S and her dance teacher are not simply kind relationships.
In a **, the dance teacher asked Xiao S what he ate?
Xiao S was vague and very obsessed, pulling the dance teacher.
Xiao S has exposed the unhappiness in his marriage to social platforms more than once.
Xiao S is beautiful but doesn't know it, but he is financially independent but has to be attached to it, and he belongs to the incompleteness of his personality.
When Xiao S debuted, she was actually very beautiful, and in the aesthetics of different people, she was even more beautiful than Big S.
It's just the lack of family education, and she doesn't like to study or read, so when she was suppressed by S and others, Xiao S was obedient.
She also felt that she was not as beautiful as S, she was not good, and she blindly denied herself.
When she met Xu Yajun, who was unmarried and pregnant, she could finally move out of the Xu family and come to her own home, no matter what happened to her, Xiao S didn't plan to go back.
Because in the Xu family, Xiao S will no longer receive so much criticism and ridicule.
Maybe the Xu family made Xiao S feel more secure and belonging.
Life is our own, and women's sense of independence is not something that exists, we still need time and social change.
Xiao S is a product of the feudal tradition of Taiwan Province, and it is also a kind of compromise, dependence, and unbrave sadness.
Everyone has their own aspirations, maybe everyone's views on marriage are different, so no matter how depressed the marriage is, how much ability Xiao S has to support herself and her children, Xiao S just wants the guarantee that marriage gives her.
We can't criticize Xiao S either, we are not qualified to criticize anyone for making any choices.
But I hope all girls don't be forcedBecome a little s.