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As a parent, of course, we all want our children to study hard, get good grades, and be admitted to the ideal university.
However, how to make children study hard, this is what many parents rack their brains and try to find ways to fail to do.
Here, as a high school teacher who has been teaching for 33 years, I will not preach too much, but I will give three successful examples of children who have been hard at reading.
A friend of mine, an excellent teacher, once told me about one of his children's education.
When his son was about the second year of junior high school, he was very tired of school and rebellious for some reason, and his academic performance fell seriously and he looked sluggish all day long. Later, the child even told his father that he didn't want to go to school anymore and wanted to quit school. You can imagine the panic in my friend's heart at that time. However, he quietly followed the child's wish and said, "Child, I want you to go to school well because I want you to have a good job in the future, so that you can easily earn money and eat." Now that you don't want to go to school yourself, Dad respects your opinion. You can withdraw from school. But Dad tells you that you're a teenager, you're a big kid, and you're going to have to support yourself from the day you stop going to school. Now that you're so young, no one will let you work, you can only go and pick up the junk to earn money. ”
What my friend didn't expect was that the child actually agreed, and he looked very relieved.
Then, the child returned home from school. My friend sighed and handed him a woven bag, "Go ahead, kid, daddy respects your choice."
The kid started picking up scrap for a living.
It's not easy to make money by picking up rags. Within three days, the child's hair was unkempt and his clothes were dirty, and his face and neck were tanned. He understood the hardships of making a living and offered his father to continue his education.
Then, the child went back to school and began to read hard. Today, this child has obtained 985 doctorates and has been employed in Shanghai.
Another friend of mine also talked about his child's experience when he was in high school.
His child's grades in high school were mediocre, and he suffered a setback in the college entrance examination, and only got to the college score line. The child asks for a repeat.
My friend supported the child's repetition with a try-and-see attitude and chose a private high school for the child.
The tuition fee for private high schools is very high, 30,000 yuan per academic year.
On the day my child went to a private high school, my friend and the child's mother took the child to the private high school, handed over 30,000 yuan to the child, and asked the child to pay the fee at the school's general affairs office. The money is in my mother's Kun bag, and the Kun bag is bulging because of it. Half an hour later, the child came out with a shriveled kun bag, and smiled shyly: "God, so much money from our family has been handed over to others." ”
Mom smiled, "It's good that you know that tuition is expensive." ”
This year, this child studied hard, his college entrance examination score increased by nearly 200 points, and he went to a university. Today, the child has obtained a master's degree from 211 universities and works for a listed private company in Zhengzhou.
Another junior high school teacher friend of mine is very honest, and he is very plain in the unit, and is even despised and bullied by some snobbish officials. However, his two children are very good, the daughter studied at Xiangtan University in Hunan and now works for a foreign company in Shanghai. The boy is now studying for a master's degree at Harbin Institute of Technology.
I once asked him for advice on his experience in nurturing children over a drink.
He said that the most important thing is to keep the child's mind from being depressed. Children's minds are not depressed, happy and happy, and learning will naturally progress.
He said that the child's mother urges the child to study all day long, preaching, blaming, very strict, and the child is very stressed and bored. I no longer manage their studies, I just take the children to play badminton, climb mountains, and teach them to swim. I have always ignored my children's academic performance and let it be natural. As a result, they all studied hard and were successfully admitted to a good university. Hehe.
I listened and gave him a thumbs up from the bottom of my heart. This honest friend of mine, who is despised by some people, is very introverted and a master.
Dear friends, these are the three examples I want to tell you about making children read hard.
I think there are many ways to let children read hard, the important thing is not to be in a hurry to criticize and blame, not to confront the child, in the face of children who do not study hard, to calm down and think carefully about countermeasures, you can also ask for advice from insiders, and then find a way to let "this one" child read hard.
You must believe that a key opens a lock and makes your child study hard, there must be a secret recipe that you need to discover!
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The author is a senior Chinese teacher, a writer, and engaged in literary creationIn the past few years, he has published literary worksFor the rest of the articles, he is the author of two small ** and poetry collections.