Did you see her face-saving look after she broke up?On the surface, it was cold, and it didn't seem to care at all.
Don't be fooled, there's drama in there.
It's true that a woman can't let go of the man she loves deeply, but she acts like she wants to wipe you off the face of the earth, just because she doesn't want you to feel that getting back together is a matter of minutes, for fear that you won't cherish and reflect.
In fact, the core reason why she said goodbye to you was that she was tired and panicked.
She's probably told you a million times that something is wrong, what about you?Well, there is a high probability that he is pretending to be deaf and dumb.
So, when she had saved up enough of her disappointment in you, she had to break up in order to protect herself.
After the breakup, her attitude towards you seems to be ruthless, but in fact, there is still a fire in her heart.
Don't rush to feel that the world is apocalyptic, the important thing is to find a way to solve the problem.
First and foremost, don't let your emotions be on a roller coaster.
Yes, you two broke up, and you may have mixed feelings, but at this time you have to be calmer than ever.
Want her to turn back?Then don't play with her emotionally, be mature.
To compound this, you have to have a plan and a strategy.
Just like in a war, you first have to find out the enemy's weak points. What's the problem?Are you not caring enough?
Or is there a communication problem?Found it, the next step is to solve it in a targeted manner.
This may require a little external help, such as an emotional counselor or psychologist, there is nothing to be ashamed of, the key is the effect.
Next, I have to talk about those taboos.
First, don't run into walls everywhere like a brainless fly, bombing, blocking everywhere, these behaviors will only make her farther away from you.
First, don't kneel and lick, don't feel how humble you are, she will change her mind. This low profile will only make her look down on you more.
First, don't engage in self-abuse, use hurting yourself to gain sympathy, this trick is too stupid and will only embarrass you more.
First, don't be stupid and wait, thinking that if you don't contact, you can make her turn back. It depends on the situation, there has to be a strategy, it doesn't mean that if you cut off contact, the other party will automatically return to you.
It takes a lot to get it back, but it's a smart one.
You have to show that you have changed so that she can see that there is hope for your future.
This is not to say that you have to change yourself to cater to her, but that you have to work together based on mutual respect and understanding.
The important thing is to be patient. Getting back together doesn't happen overnight, it takes time and requires your joint efforts.
There may be setbacks, there may be quarrels, but as long as the goal is aligned, there is always a solution.
To be clear, true love is not possession, but knowing how to let go.
If you really love her, learn to respect her choice, even if she chooses to leave.
At the same time, you should also respect yourself, don't hang yourself from a tree, the world is so big, there is always someone suitable for you.
Redemption is not a forced demand, but a common choice of both parties. You can try, you can try, but the result depends on the efforts of both parties.
Even if you don't get back together, this experience is precious, it teaches you how to love, how to grow.
Whatever the outcome, be brave in the face of it. Life has to go on, and happiness is still waiting for you.
Don't lose faith in the future because of a momentary loss.
True happiness is given by oneself, not by others.
Don't feel like you're the end of the world just because a relationship is over. If you break up, then you have to be clear, just be clear.
Don't be the kind of person who breaks up and gets entangled, that will only make you fall deeper and deeper and make both sides lose.
Your world shouldn't be just her, and your own worth and happiness are not based on someone's approval.
Don't waste your time in endless self-doubt and regret. Yes, it's good to learn from failed feelings, but don't let this reflection turn into self-torture.
Everyone has their own growth trajectory, and sometimes, the end of a relationship may be just for you to meet a better self and a better her.
In love