Preface.
Could it be that Li Jian, who has been married for 19 years and has no children, has really embarked on another path?
The married life of Li Jian and his wife Xiaobei has always been full of mysteries.
In 19 years of married life, they have never conceived a child, which seems a bit abnormal in the eyes of many people.
However, when we dig deeper into the story of this man and woman, we will find that they may be living a happy life of their own.
1. A teenager who met for the first time at the age of 10 and fell in love at first sight.
One summer day in 1977, 10-year-old Li Jian followed his parents to an old friend's house.
This old friend has a daughter named Xiaobei, who has waist-length hair, is fair-skinned, and has a gentle and obedient personality.
The moment he saw Xiao Bei, Li Jian felt as if he had been hit by something, and his whole person was distracted.
He suddenly discovered that there was such a beautiful and kind girl in this world! Since then, Xiaobei's appearance has been deeply imprinted in Li Jian's heart.
Whenever he thinks of her, Li Jian's heart will be filled with warmth.
However, Li Jian regretted that Xiaobei's home was far away from them, and the transportation was inconvenient at that time, so the two families had almost no contact.
If you want to see Xiaobei again, I'm afraid you can only hope for the favor of fate.
Second, the reunion of the university, the love is getting deeper and deeper.
More than ten years later, Li Jian was admitted to Tsinghua University to study for a degree in electronic engineering.
His grades are not top-notch, but his love for ** makes him famous on the stage of Tsinghua University.
Once, Li Jian met his childhood dream lover Xiaobei in the library.
It turned out that she was also admitted to Tsinghua University, with excellent academic performance and a bright future.
The joy of the reunion made Li Jian excited.
He realized that the reunion he had been eagerly awaiting in his heart had finally become a reality.
In college, Xiaobei often pays attention to Li Jian's every move.
She found that although Li Jian was not outstanding in the study of electronics, he was extremely talented in **.
She is proud of Li Jian's talent and sincerely hopes that he can realize his dream.
When Li Jian was depressed due to his grades, Xiaobei encouraged him to believe in himself and pursue his dreams bravely.
Li Jian was also deeply moved by Xiaobei's empathy.
He realized that Xiaobei was not only his first love, but also the bosom friend who understood him and supported him the most.
3. In 2005, Li Jian's father suffered from cancer, and Xiaobei married into the Li family.
After graduating from university, Li Jian worked in the radio and television system.
This job pays well and is stable, and Li Jian's parents want him to develop well.
However, Li Jian, who has a soft spot for **, feels that the work of the Radio and Television Bureau is not in line with his pursuit, and he is eager to become a full-time singer one day.
During this time, Xiaobei continued to encourage Li Jian to pursue his dreams and expressed her full support for his decision.
Just as Li Jian was about to quit his job at the Radio and Television Bureau, a sudden turn of events disrupted his plans - his father was diagnosed with terminal stomach cancer.
In order to accumulate his father's high medical expenses, Li Jian had to temporarily shelve his ** dream and run around to work.
During those difficult years, Li Jian fell into an unprecedented predicament.
He even began to worry that he was not worthy of Xiaobei, because he could not afford to provide her with a good life.
However, Xiaobei did not leave Li Jian because of this.
One spring day in 2005, she took the initiative to propose to Li Jian, expressing her willingness to marry him and spend time with him.
Li Jian burst into tears with excitement.
He realizes that Xiaobei is the most precious person in the world.
It is with her companionship and support that he can move forward bravely, no matter how big the storm is.
4. In 2009, Li Jian's father died, and the relationship between husband and wife became stronger.
After a long battle with the disease, Li Jian's father unfortunately passed away in 2009 and left this world forever.
Li Jian and Xiaobei lost their loved ones and fell into deep grief.
As Li Jian's closest companion, Xiaobei gently watches over Li Jian's side and always cares about his physical and mental condition.
Despite the great grief they have experienced, the young couple has grown closer by supporting each other.
They are well aware that the road of life will not always be smooth sailing, and the key is to have a soul mate who can snuggle up to each other.
The tragedy strengthened their belief that they would spend their lives together.
It was also in this year that Li Jian regained his dream of becoming a full-time singer when he was young.
After experiencing the parting of life and death, he seems to see more clearly: life is fragile and short, and he must seize the present and do his best to do what he wants.
With Xiaobei's 100% understanding and encouragement, Li Jian devoted himself to the development of the singer's career without hesitation.
He is determined to let his ** voice spread all over the country, and even touch more people.
5. In 2013, Li Jian's career reached its peak, and the two lived a low-key life.
After years of hard work, Li Jian finally ushered in the peak of his career.
His masterpiece "Legend" is deeply loved by music fans, and he himself has achieved great success on major platforms, gaining both fame and fortune.
However, even when their careers were in full swing, Li Jian and Xiaobei's lives did not change at all - they were still simple, low-key and simple.
Li Jian does not hype his life through various social media accounts or magazines like other celebrities.
Photos with Xiaobei rarely appear in public, but every year on the wedding anniversary, Li Jian's social account will definitely post a few words of blessing to express his sincerest gratitude to this confidant who has been with him all the way.
Some people also speculate that Li Jian and Xiaobei have quietly given birth to a child, but they are just silent to protect the privacy of their offspring.
In fact, this is not the case.
In an interview with **, Li Jian once told the public: whether to have children or not should not be the criterion for judging whether a family is happy or not.
For him and Xiaobei, the company of each other is the most precious treasure in life.
6. After 19 years of infertile married life, are they still happy?
Li Jian and Xiaobei have been married for 19 years, but they have never had children of their own.
This may seem strange to many.
However, in Li Jian's view, whether or not they have children does not affect the quality of their happy life.
They cherish their feelings for each other, and they also hope that their ** can infect more people.
Li Jian doesn't think that the meaning of life is to reproduce.
He believes that as long as he lives the right life, life is complete.
It may be difficult for us to judge whether Li Jian and Xiaobei's lifestyle is right or wrong.
But they do live their own happy lives.
This courage and wisdom to assert oneself and dare to stand up to conventional values is also admirable and admirable.
Epilogue. From the first meeting in ten years to the reunion in college.
From the death of his father to the peak of his career.
It can be said that Li Jian and Xiaobei are soul mates who are close to each other.
They shared weal and woe with each other, so as to overcome one difficulty after another.
Maybe this is the sincere and lasting love that many people dream of.
No matter what happens in the future, may they still stay by each other's side and walk hand in hand through the long road of life.