After my girlfriend and I got engaged, I found out that she was not a regular worker, but a contract worker, and I was a career editor.
My girlfriend is very beautiful, she is 169 tall, beautiful and long-legged, very temperamental, family conditions are good, she has a house and a car.
I'm 164 high, full career establishment. My parents are middle-level leaders in formal units, and their families have a house and a car, and the conditions are not bad at all.
It's just that I personally feel that my image is not too good, mainly because I am not too tall, which is a "hard injury". However, I don't have a good way, and there is no way to change this one day after tomorrow.
I was admitted to the career editor, and I have looked at more than ten objects in three years of work, but I have not found the right one.
The good children with too good conditions don't like me, and the conditions are average, and I don't like them.
My girlfriend and I met at a class reunion, and she was my classmate's best friend. According to my classmates, her parents are in business and can earn hundreds of thousands to millions a year.
I felt that she was okay, so I left my phone and got along well.
We connected, and it was she who I took the initiative to contact. She actually works in the same office building as me.
She is very cheerful and generous, understands other people's minds, and treats me well, I think she is the person I am looking for.
Later, she often drove more than 600,000 yuan to pick me up from work, and we went to and from work together, and I felt very happy.
The two of us got engaged after 6 months together.
Just as I was immersed in the yearning for a better life, I stumbled upon that my girlfriend was not a career establishment!
Today, I went to the compilation office and found out that my girlfriend was not on the compilation list.
After inquiry, I learned that she was a contract worker of the unit, not a career editor.
She explained that she had passed a formal examination in the county, signed a labor contract, and of course was a regular worker.
She didn't know that there were so many other things to say. Besides, her work in the unit is the same as that of a regular worker, and the salary is the same, so there is no difference from it.
However, the problem is that I am a career editor myself, and my parents gave me the condition that the object must be a member.
In fact, the difference between a regular worker and a temporary contract worker is too far for you to see when you are young, but work and stability are naturally not the same. There is also a very large difference in salaries after retirement.
Now that we all have feelings, what should we do?
My friend said to me that if I minded, then break up, she didn't care. Her parents took 10,000 steps back for this one child, she just didn't have a job, and her parents could fully support themselves.
Besides, she doesn't care about this salary, it's not enough for her car fuel. She came to work, completely because of her parents' intentions. She's still young, and she hasn't had enough of it!
Later, she said what I wanted to do, decide for myself, and not trust anyone's opinion, including my parents.
If it feels like she's okay, then continue to prepare for marriage, her parents have a house and a car, and they are ready. If I don't feel good, then I will break up, and there will be many people chasing her!
In this era, anyone who leaves can live, and there is no need to identify a person.
Then, she walked away in style and threw the question at me.
What the hell am I going to do?
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