Liang Shiqiuyears of pursuing third-rate actresses, Bing Xin's words expose the hypocrisy of intellectuals.
* During the period, there were many masters who died late because of women's problems, including Jiang Menglin, president of Peking University. At the age of 75, he fell in love with a scheming woman, Xu Xianle, and at the age of 78, he was cheated out of his family property by a young woman, and finally died of anger.
Although the famous scholar Liang Shiqiu has profound attainments in the academic field, he has not been able to avoid the troubles of the world in life. In 1975, just a few months after the death of his original partner Cheng Ji Shu, who had been with him for 47 years, Liang Shiqiu was madly infatuated with the third-tier female star Han Jingqing.
This year, Liang Shiqiu was 72 years old, while Han Jingqing was only 44 years old, and the age difference between the two was a full 28 years. However, love knows no age, and Liang Shiqiu's choice has also triggered different views on love and marriage.
Han Jingqing, an amphibious star in the film and music world, has both beauty and temperament, and is still beautiful when she is over forty. More uniquely, she is not only good at writing lyrics, writing scripts, and writing newspaper columns, but also proficient in English and drama, and is passionate about oil painting and calligraphy.
Therefore, as soon as Liang Shiqiu met Han Jingqing, he couldn't help falling in love deeply.
In order to pursue Han Jingqing, Liang Shiqiu seemed to have returned to his youth, and in just two months, he wrote more than 90 love letters, the wording was sensual and vulgar, and the former great essayist became a passionate lover in a blink of an eye.
His language style has also changed from euphemistic, fresh and cheerful to straightforward and warm. He said affectionately: "My love for you is unconditional, eternal, pure, unreserved, and uncomplaining ......”
Under Liang Shiqiu's enthusiastic pursuit, Han Jingqing was quickly attracted, and the two began a warm "year-old love". However, due to the failed experience of Jiang Menglin and others, this relationship was not blessed from beginning to end.
The academic community even formed a "nurse group", and Liang Shiqiu's friends and students stood up against him, and even threatened to break off his friendship. Even his friend Bingxin, who was far away in the mainland, shook his head and said, "He just can't pass this level." ”
Bingxin knows Liang Shiqiu best, and she knows that deep down in his heart he has always longed for free love, but unfortunately his early arranged marriage made him unable to do so. Therefore, as soon as the original partner died, he started "revenge love", boldly pursued female stars, and caused a storm in the city, which became a lace news at that time.
The love of Liang Han"It has attracted widespread attention, and every ** headline is occupied by related news. Han Jingqing endured a lot of criticism and insults because of this, and was labeled by some ** as ruining the reputation of a national treasure-level master.
Liang Shiqiu and Han Jingqing are extremely firm in this love, even if they will be criticized and opposed by the world, they are willing to be together. On May 9, 1975, they held a simple but solemn wedding, without inviting relatives and friends, but Liang Shiqiu himself acted as the master of ceremonies, announced the beginning of the wedding, read the certificate, and finally he delivered his groom speech, and the whole process was completed by him alone.
On their wedding night, they hugged each other and cried, but this did not make their love for each other any less, but more determined.
Liang Shiqiu said affectionately in a letter to Han Jingqing: "No matter in the past, present or future, no one or anything can destroy our firm love and marriage.
Jingqing, you are the most loved person in my life, and in the same way, I am also the most loved person in your life. On May 9, 1985, Liang Han and his wife ushered in their 10th wedding anniversary, and Taiwan** also changed their tone on this day, praising their love as eternal and a real "legend of immortality".
Liang Shiqiu and Han Jingqing's married life began in 1975 and lasted for 12 years, this happy time Under Han Jingqing's careful care, Liang Shiqiu ushered in the peak of his later years, creating a million-word masterpiece, which established his position as a leader in the academic world.
However, Liang Shiqiu died of illness in Taipei in 1987 at the age of 84, which slapped the outside world's speculation about Han Jingqing, she left all her property to the children of Liang Shiqiu and his ex-wife, and sorted out Liang Shiqiu's posthumous works alone to commemorate their great love.
Han Jingqing mourns Liang Shiqiu affectionately, and often brings salty zongzi in front of the tomb, because Liang Shiqiu has diabetes and can't eat sweet. In such a day, Han Jingqing silently persevered for 7 years, never married, did not change, and did not complain, until she died in 1994 at the age of 63.