Sanmao said: "It's too late to be serious and young, so you can only choose to grow old seriously." ”
After going through youth, surviving middle age, and reaching the age of retirement in a flash.
When you are old, you have less impetuousness in your heart, you have lost the aura of the workplace, and no one shackles you.
In the past, we thought that "freedom" was the greatest happiness, but we didn't know that any freedom has conditions attached.
Happiness is not difficult to say, it is not easy to say easy, only people who understand life can truly have it.
Today, I will share with you nine happy little things to complete one by one.
Enjoy the sunshine, pluck a handful of warmth, and put it in your heart.
The poet Bai Juyi said: "The winter sunrise of Gao Gao, according to the south corner of my house." Sit with your eyes closed, and your skin is angry. ”
Sunlight pours in from the windowsill, move a chair, sit in the sun, close your eyes, and let the sun fall freely on your skin. It's warm, it's nice.
Of course, what is even more wonderful is that your heart will warm up with the sun. As long as you are willing, the sunshine will enter your heart and make you a person with your own light.
When people are old, they are always smiling, and they can infect others when they go to any circle, which is undoubtedly the "warm winter sun" in society.
Holding hands with his wife, he felt the beauty of each other.
"There is no wind and rain to dodge, there are no bumps and bumps do not have to go, so hold your hand with peace of mind, and don't think about whether you should turn back.
Accompanied by the melody left by singer Su Rui, walking hand in hand with his wife, you will definitely be deeply moved.
Over the years, it is really not easy for husband and wife to go through the ups and downs of life and survive the troughs of life.
Perhaps, love has evolved into family affection, and when holding hands, it is no longer moved. But at that moment, you will touch the tenderness in your heart.
Before retirement, everyone was very busy, couldn't fall in love well, and couldn't do some delicate things for each other. After retirement, leave some time for your wife, start by holding hands, awaken love, and make the shy person's face have a burst of crimson.
Don't be embarrassed, don't worry about being serious. The person who says "hate" actually really likes you.
Watch over your children from far and near, and see the hope of life.
"Kid, it's raining over there. ”
Before the writer Han Wenyou fell asleep, he received a call from his father. The father didn't say much, just told him that it would rain tomorrow.
The next day, it suddenly rained in the city, which had been sunny skies. Most people can only walk in the rain, but Han Wenyou walks calmly with an umbrella. The people in the unit thought it was strange.
It turns out that the children have gone far step by step, but they have never gotten out of the concern of their parents. This true affection makes the children full of joy.
There is no need for too frequent contact between parents and children, and parents cannot interfere in their children's small families. It's just not far away, it's good enough.
Separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, there are umbrellas sent by parents, which are the most intimate reliance.
Do a good deed and hear someone say "thank you".
The writer Lawrence once said, "What ennobles a man is his character." ”
I am retired, my life is simpler, I have a certain amount of savings in my hands, and I have accumulated a lot of work experience. If you can use these to help others, then happiness will be doubled.
Helping others is fun, don't spend a lot of money, maybe it's a gesture, but you can hear a "thank you".
Someone has experimented by placing two pots of flowers in different places, one receiving abuse and the other receiving praise. After some time, the reviled flower withered, and the praised flower became more beautiful.
Therefore, it is a very valuable thing to be thanked. You can be thanked many times a day, and your life will flourish.
Put down your phone and take a good break.
Understand that "you control the pace of your life, not your phone controlling you all the time." ”
In the information age, everyone can move their fingers to look at things in any corner of the world. Also able to hear the sound and see **.
It's not impossible to use your phone to pass the time of boredom, but to stop in moderation. Don't be a low-headed person, which will bring health troubles and make yourself "busy".
Take a serious rest, relax your eyes, relax your mind, relax your body, and your health will accompany you for a long time.
Warm wine, boil tea, read, and be a literary youth.
"Green ants are freshly brewed with wine, and the red clay is a small stove. If you want snow in the evening, can you drink a glass of nothing? ”
We can't write poetry, but we can enjoy a poetic life.
What should I do at home? Learn more and experience the slow life more. A cup of tea, a book, a glass of wine, it seems very simple, but in fact, we can make it more complicated and feel the process.
Pick a handful of clean snow, put it in a kettle, and put it on a warm fire to boil. The water is boiling, put in a few tea leaves, and wait for the fragrance of the tea to come out.
Before you even eat it, the tea is already intoxicating.
At first glance, I don't know the poetry, but then I look at the person in the poem.
Go to the countryside to catch a market and see the simplicity of the world.
"There is no way out of the mountains and rivers, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village. ”
How long has it been since you have experienced rural life? If you count it up, we are all rural people. In our bones, we can still smell the scent of earth.
Go to the village and check it out, maybe the scenery is not beautiful enough, but you can be in a good mood and hear the sounds of nature.
Writer Mo Yan, in the article, wrote about such an incident: he and his mother went to the market and sold a load of cabbage. When calculating the money, Mo Yan miscalculated and asked for an extra dime from an old lady.
After returning home, Mo Yan was criticized by his mother. Years later, Mo Yan still felt guilty about this incident.
To be a person with a guilty conscience is not to be humble, but to spur oneself to grow up, and it is an expression of the simplicity of the people's customs.
People, we must always be baptized by "nature" in order to maintain our innocence.
Make dumplings by yourself and enjoy the joy of labor.
"Slightly similar to the soup cake race for the New Year, the shepherd's cabbage contains fresh teeth. ”
During the New Year's holidays, the dumplings are served, and when they are finished, there is a faint fragrance on the chopsticks and teeth. Such a scene is the happiness of the family.
The most important thing for retired seniors to enjoy is the fireworks in the world. There is no cooking smoke in town, but you can keep the kitchen steaming up all the time.
Although you can buy a lot of things with money, handmade dumplings represent different meanings. When you start to move, you will find that your mind is full of the excitement of the dinner, and your heart is looking forward to the return of relatives and friends.
Go out on a trip and let yourself go.
"The apes on both sides of the strait can't stop crying, and the light boat has passed over the ten thousand mountains. ”
The poet Li Bai happily set off from the White Emperor City and walked thousands of miles in a blink of an eye. It's really cozy.
On the shore, the mountains are green, and the sounds of animals can be faintly heard. There is a white cloud, gathered and scattered, I don't know where to go, I don't know where to come, but it's always in the blue sky.
People, you will get old in a flash, don't wait until you can't walk, and then go to see the scenery.
Stuck in the workplace for too long, it's time to go outside. I don't care if the scenery is good or not, I care about my state of mind.
Writer Xue Xiaozen said: "I heard that the plum blossoms bloomed three or two branches, and I put a seat of tea and waited for the spring breeze, waiting for you." ”When people are old, don't be slowly decadent, live more and more young, find a plum blossom in the cold winter, look forward to the spring breeze in the fragrance of plum blossoms, and wait for your beloved in the spring breeze.
Where the heart desires, it is beautiful;There is love in the heart, and the world is worth it.