In this life, it is better to rely on others than on oneself.
But who will tell you how to cross yourself?
When I reached a certain age, I suddenly woke up to the fact that in the hurried time, my body became more and more old, and my state of mind was polished in pain.
Like an abrupt stone, washed by a stream, roared by a flood, and slowly washed away by a great river, it turned into a round pebble, or a grain of fine sand.
Childishness, maturity, and aging are not as simple as getting older, but a process of awakening.
Spending a lifetime of time and insisting on self-transcendence, whether you reach the other side or not, is a kind of success.
When he was a child, he crossed the body.
A woman once said: "When I was a child, it was my mother who left the meat on the belly of the fish for us to eat, after falling in love, we left it for our boyfriend to eat, and after getting married, it was for our son to eat. ”Only the love of the parents to lick the calf cannot be repaid. By the time you understand this, you are already a certain age, and your parents are already very old, or they are gone forever. At this age, I have also become a parent, giving the best love to my children, and for parents, I can only say that "I have more than enough heart but not enough power".
We are all pieces of flesh that fell from our mothers. Our parents raised us and wanted to give us everything. However, when you grow up, you still have to rely on yourself.
Parents bring meals to the table or deliver them to us, and they can't replace the things of eating.
From the moment we leave our mother's body, we have to work hard to grow up, eat, dress, learn to speak, and perceive the seasons.
The scars on your body are all your own masterpieces, and your parents can't help them; When you cry, when you are tired, it naturally stops; Your "100,000 whys" can only be answered by yourself, and your parents' teachings are half-understood.
When he was a teenager, he was able to do so.
The wisdom of the youth is the wisdom of the country, and the wealth of the youth is the wealth of the country; If the youth is strong, the country will be strong, and if the youth is independent, the country will be independent. All the pride of a person is based on wisdom.
A person with infinite wisdom can really hold his head high.
The teacher asked us, "What do you want to do when you grow up?" ”
We say, "Be a scientist, a mathematician, a navigator, an astronomer."
The teacher said earnestly, "Then, study hard." ”
After studying hard for more than ten years, he finally joined the army of exams. The posture of thousands of troops crossing the single-plank bridge is terrifying, but they have to rush forward.
If you read the book thinly, your life will have thickness.Wisdom is a stepping stone. If you grasp it, you are standing on the shoulders of giants, and you can have a slight advantage over anything.
It's a pity that how many people don't know the use of studying, and they think that they can go to work early and still live a good life.
The black hair does not know how to study early, and the white hair regrets studying late. When I get older, I know that I want to achieve great things, and ability comes first.
In middle age, cross love.
Someone said: "Human favor is an emotional card, play one, one less." ”
When people reach middle age, there are old and young, and the world is full of people who rely on themselves, but they can't find someone they can rely on. Only by having a few more emotional cards in your hand can you solve your worries.
CouplesLove, love for a lifetime. As long as the husband and wife have one heart, the loess can also become **. Firewood, rice, oil and salt, and warm cottages are all created by husband and wife.
FriendsThere are more roads to walk. Whether it is a friend who exchanges interests, a friend who helps each other, or a friend who eats and drinks, you can't blindly refuse. Who knows, on the road in the future, what difficulties will be encountered, and who needs to help?
Colleague, always intrigued, but had to "work together". Find a way to learn some experience from old colleagues; Take advantage of new colleagues and share some of the workload; It may be a little good to talk to your boss.
Strangers, nor can you offend at will. As the saying goes, "Look down and don't see when you look up." Perhaps, a stranger becomes a boss or a partner. The world is really not big, and you may meet old acquaintances when you reach **.
People who live at the bottomand look at them levelly. Because, in the future, they may turn over and even be stronger than themselves.
If you want to make money, you have to rely on others "with a dead face". Only when a situation of "everyone picks up firewood" is formed, can the cause become bigger and stronger. It's really sad that you're alone.Feelings, at a critical time, are more important than money, this is the perception after having money.
In old age, he died.
When people are old, it is the "finale" of life.You are more and more convinced that there are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't have to ask for it.
I don't like tossing more and more, and I have a "half-asleep" attitude towards everything around me. Even if it's something related to me, I won't rush to do it, but take a look, still thinking, maybe after a while, it will naturally get better.
What you missed, what you gained, and what will happen in the future is all fate and deserved.
You finally know that everything will come to naught. Money is passed through once in the hand, after all, it belongs to someone else; The house is also just a shelter from the wind and rain; Love will not be eternal, husband and wife, there must always be one person who goes first; Children, when they grow up, they can't take care of it, and they need to fly freely.
What can last for a long time is the spirit of being a man and a good family style. Be a man, despite being kind, fate has its own arrangement.
Conclusion.
Hayao Miyazaki said, "Some things can only be talked to oneself, and some secrets can only be told to friends." Some pain can only be borne silently, and you still have to rely on yourself to save it. The real pain, no one can share with you, you can only change it from one shoulder to the other. ”Along the way, someone will cross you, but you will have to cross yourself after all. When you lose it, you know that you regret it; When you fail, you understand the fault; When you are old, you will know how to cherish it. Everything woke up too late.
Life is short, there are some truths, don't understand it too late. The sooner you expose the truth and push yourself harder, you will have fewer regrets.
No matter how far you go, don't forget the way you came; No matter how hard it is, don't stop moving.
Remember, rely on yourself and treat the help of others as an accident.