Text|Jing Ma
U.S. criminal defense lawyers are urging parents not to let their children spend the night at someone else's house！This makes many parents feel very surprised, after all, some children have a very good time with their classmates, and it is normal to spend the night at the same school.
The first reason: the probability of the child being ** will increase
This lawyer mentioned that, actuallyThere is a high probability that the child will be ** among acquaintances
WhileIn the "Ten-Year Observation Report on China's Child Prevention", it was found that the proportion of acquaintances committing crimes in children's ** cases will be relatively high, especially in 2014, acquaintances committed crimes as high as 8787% of these acquaintances include teachers, faculty members, relatives, neighbors, family friends, etc.
After all, your child is not in your custody, and the child may not pay attention to self-protection, and you yourself feel that the child is very relieved to go to the same school, but you may put the child in a wolf's den.
The second reason: other people's neighbors may also be variable
You don't know if there are some criminals in the neighbors of the same classmate, some time ago our children often went to a classmate to spend the night, and then the mother of this classmate told me,Their iPad was stolen by a child downstairs, who is said to be a repeat offender.
This child just said that he stole the ipad, and he has not hurt the child, in case someone else's neighbor is a ** habitual offender, or some people with a criminal record, then your child is in danger.
The third reason: the probability of the child being at risk while playing** increases
At home, when the child goes to play, he is more familiar with the surrounding environmentThere are also fixed rules when playing with friends around you, but if your child goes to someone else's house for the night and plays with other people's children, it is very likely that there will be some other risks.
The first risk is that it may not be welcomed by other parents
Let's say your child goes to spend the night with his classmatesIt's just a classmate invitation, but his parents or grandparents don't like you to go to their houseHere, the child may feel the cold face of others, which will also make the child feel uncomfortable.
Or go to someone else's house, and others will tell their classmates if they are unhappy: Don't invite your classmate again in the future, which can also hurt the child.
The second risk: it may disturb the rest of other people's families
A lot of classmates may beGrandparents brought up,Grandparents go to bed earlier at night and need a quiet environment, if you go to the same school to make noise, it may disturb the rest of the elderly, which will also leave an impression of ignorance to the parents of the classmates.
The third risk is the possibility of accidentally destroying other people's things
Because you are more familiar with what you put in ** in your own home, but when you go to the same school, you don't know what the things of the same class are placed in **, sometimesOne who is not careful may break something in someone else's houseIf it's just something that doesn't matter so much, it's okay, but if it's something valuable, it may be embarrassing, and the parents of your classmates want you to pay for it? It's also particularly embarrassing.
The fourth risk: something is missing and your child may become the object of focused suspicion
For example, when you go to someone's house, and their money is missing, or their watch is missing, or other things are missing, then you will become the object of suspicion, which is beyond doubtOriginally, there were only a few people in other people's families, but suddenly you appeared and this thing disappeared, and it was easy to suspect your child.
Do you dare to let your child spend the night at someone else's house?
**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan
*All on the Internet, infringement will be deleted immediately).