I have always envied those who have a lot of friends, who are good at dancing with long sleeves among all kinds of people, and who usually call friends and friends.
Recently, I read the book "How to Make Better People Than You", and realized that the most fundamental law of "network management" is to find the most fundamental "network management", that is, we must first understand human nature, what is human nature? How can I make friends with someone better than you? To grasp human nature and "prescribe the right medicine", the first key point is - what value can you provide to others? How can we help others if we want to be altruistic? Be sure to understand your own strengths, and play to your strengths to bring value to others first.
I'm a little not good, making friends is more passive, some behaviors seem to be active but also passive, how to attract people you like, you have to be full of positive energy, positive and cheerful, sunny and energetic, so that you can resonate at the same frequency, after all, everyone has no resistance to people with strong magnetic fields! We have no resistance to people who have something in common with us, no resistance to people who are particularly good and motivated, no one will like a person with negative energy all day long, and their mood will be affected by such a person!
It seems that striking iron should also be hard, the best network is to rely on oneself to attract, things to gather, people to group" what kind of person you are easier to attract. The premise of attraction is to enhance self-worth, to continue to learn and grow, learn to think more about others, and your gain in the future is far greater than this....
The book says: Those who can help you are not your connections; Only those you can help are your network.
If you want to accumulate contacts, what you can do is to continue to accumulate your own value and continue to output your own value.
When you can help more and more powerful people, your network will become wider and wider, and the quality of your network will be higher and higher.
Thank you for not stopping learning all these years, and now you are still working hard to cultivate, striving to have the ability to take the initiative to provide value to others, study hard, and make friends happily, I have been on the road, hoping to meet like-minded you. Refine.