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In life, if it is an exam, everyone wants to hand in a satisfactory answer.
They all want to have a relatively high score and be recognized by more people.
However, happiness in everyone's mind is different.
There is no standard answer to what is the best life.
In life, there is one kind of person who is more and more blessed: the self-loving person.
My brother took on a big project, and during that time, he worked overtime all the time, which was very tiring.
It happened that a classmate organized a party before, and he called several **s and asked him to attend.
He said several times, and he really didn't have time to go.
However, the classmate did not give up, saying that everyone was there, and only he was bad.
The younger brother is indeed lacking in skills, and clearly tells him that no matter what he says, he just doesn't have time.
Later, the classmate called him again, but he couldn't connect.
Originally, I thought it was rude for him to do this, but then I thought about it. If he dragged his tired body and had to greet some people he didn't meet very often, there was really no need.
Everyone wants to have some affinity and can leave a good impression on others.
However, there is no need to embarrass yourself to cater to others.
If others don't care about your feelings and force you to do things you don't like, then such people are not real friends.
Not pleasing is an attitude to life.
Get along with others, stick to principles, and don't blindly follow the herd, you can live a better self.
"I encourage everyone to be a cold person, being overly enthusiastic is not a way for a person to maintain a good relationship," Cai said. ”In life, there are always many people who will spend a lot of time and energy on others. However, in the end, he ignored his feelings, and the more he lived, the more tired he became.
Jing Chen in "The Most Cannibal Fireworks" gave up his high-paying job and returned to his hometown village.
After that, he renovated the old house and did what he loved.
In the countryside, he didn't have much of a utilitarian sense and didn't have much savings. But I lived a very chic and calm life, and I had more freedom.
Make three meals a day by yourself, and make your living environment a beautiful paradise.
The place where he lives will make people feel a romantic and peaceful atmosphere.
So much so that the first time Si Qing broke into his world, he found a long-lost sense of security.
She proposed to Jing Chen, falling in love not only with his handsomeness and talent, but also with such a quiet and beautiful lifestyle.
People who are truly blessed can enjoy their lives quietly and quietly.
No matter how noisy the outside world is, how many disputes there are, it seems that everything has nothing to do with him.
Only when you have peace of mind will you know clearly what kind of life you want.
Margaret Mitchell said, "Life is not obligated to give us what we expect. ”Quiet people can throw away those painful desires and give themselves more satisfaction.
In a quiet life, love yourself, live your own life, and live a happy life.
Reality, which has different gifts for everyone, will also show its cruel side.
When we were young, we were all high-spirited and ambitious, and after the baptism of the years, our mood will also change.
When you reach middle age, you will work hard and work hard for your dreams, but there will still be many unfulfilled wishes and many regrets everywhere.
It is said that life is short, and knowing that time is very important to people.
Therefore, we always can't let go of the burden that doesn't belong to us, and we can't easily go to the road ahead.
And the more blessed people who really cross over, always know how to love themselves.
He doesn't always want to hold up for others, he always chooses self-sacrifice.
will not "forget" again and again, and in the end, all that is left for you is sadness.
Rather, while working hard and loving others, I will also ask myself if I am tired.
Oscar Wilde said, "Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." ”Knowing how to care for oneself and create happiness without sacrificing oneself is the best way to live in life.
In life, don't forget to love yourself.
You are not a vassal of someone, but you should work harder for yourself to live.
Stay away from all the people and things that make you feel uncomfortable, and make up your mind to change your "overgiving" self.
Learn to make yourself happy, take time to rest, spend money to dress up, and buy things you like.
Don't always get into the nitty-gritty, don't think about crises that haven't happened.
Live in the moment, live each day well, let life go back to simplicity, and you will find that happiness is all around you.
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Xiao Qian: A writer who loves words, loves words, and codes words for ten years. In his spare time, he will meet friends with words. For the rest of my life, with you by my side, life will be steaming.