That night, my living room turned into a chaotic battlefield.
My husband, Zhang Wei, stood in front of me angrily, complaining loudly because of the dowry.
I stood there silently, barely daring to speak.
How can your family do this? obviously promised a dowry of 160,000 yuan, and in the end only gave two quilts! Zhang Wei roared, his face full of anger and disappointment.
I felt extremely aggrieved and helpless, and my voice was low: "I don't know why my mother is ...... like this.""There was confusion and pain in my words.
Your mother obviously promised to do it, why did she regret it now?! Zhang Wei was emotionally charged and couldn't accept this reality.
bowed his head and blamed himself for the contradiction, and her husband blamed and was unable to justify.
His family did everything to make up 360,000 dowries, and the atmosphere was heavy and depressing.
Zhang Wei left, and I burst into tears.
Confused and desperate, sitting alone in the darkness with thousands of thoughts.
The marriage is constantly quarreled over the issue of dowry, which becomes embarrassing and painful.
The family made a wish of 360,000 dowry, but it was not fulfilled.
Zhang Wei had a cold attitude, angry that I was helpless and embarrassed.
Bear the resentment of decision, but there is nowhere to escape from being trapped in the prison of marriage.
In the dead of night, I would cry alone in my room, missing the happy old days.
I don't know what I did wrong and why there was such retribution.
I felt extremely aggrieved and helpless, and I didn't know how to continue the future of this marriage.
After much deliberation, I finally made my decision.
I knew that in order to get out of this painful marriage, I had to take action.
I decided to settle the bride price first, which was the key to getting out of the relationship.
I firmly found my mother and had a serious conversation with her: "Mom, I can't go on like this anymore.
We have to give them the bride price money back, and I want a divorce. ”
My voice was resolute, and there was unmistakable determination in my eyes.
Mom was against it at first, but she eventually relented in the face of my firm attitude.
We discussed the return of the bride price together and finally succeeded in returning the bride price to Zhang Wei's family.
After the bride price was returned, the divorce process between me and Zhang Wei began.
Although the process was full of hardships and twists and turns, I felt like I had regained my freedom.
After the divorce, I felt a sense of relief and relief that I had never felt before.
While this experience caused me great pain, it also taught me to fight for my own happiness.
I began to slowly return to my life, and although the road ahead was still full of uncertainties, I believed that with courage, I could find my own happiness.
In the process, I also realized the impact of family education and traditional ideas on a person.
I made up my mind that if I had children of my own in the future, I would teach them more about the values of respect and equality.