People are iron, rice is steel, and if you don't eat a meal, you will be hungry. This is a common saying that we often say, indicating that everyone needs to eat, which is a basic human need. But, you know what? The way you eat can also reflect a person's character, and even show a person's character and personality. When some people eat, they look ugly, which not only affects their own image, but also makes others disgusted. When some people eat, they eat elegantly, which not only reflects their own cultivation, but also leaves a good impression on others. So, if you want to see a person clearly, eating is more accurate than physiognomy.
What is Eating Phase? Eating is the performance when eating, including movements, voices, expressions, etc. People who eat well have gentle movements, low voices, and natural expressions when eating. People who eat poorly have rude movements, noisy voices, and strange expressions when eating. For example, once I went to a restaurant with a friend for dinner, and a couple sat next to us. When the man was eating, he used chopsticks to pick up vegetables, whether it was his own plate or not, and he also stretched the chopsticks into other people's bowls. When he ate, his mouth was still talking and chewing, the food fell on the table, and the soup splashed on his clothes. When he was eating, he kept looking at his phone, playing while eating, and completely ignoring his girlfriend. His girlfriend looked embarrassed and didn't dare to say anything, so she could only bow her head to eat. My friend and I both felt very uncomfortable and quickly finished eating and left. Later, I heard that the man was also selfish at work, regardless of the interests of the team, only for his own personal gain, and was fired by the boss. It can be seen that people who eat ugly will also be selfish and rude when doing things, ignoring the rules, and causing adverse consequences.
Why are ugly people often selfish people? This is because people who eat ugly food lack respect and care for others, and only taking a good taste test is actually very simple, that is, eating their own food well, not disturbing others to eat, and not hindering others from enjoying food. I have a netizen who told me that his family's table manners were prescribed by his grandfather, and his grandfather was appreciated by businessmen and became a wealthy businessman because of his good food. Here's his story: When his grandfather was young, he was a poor farmer, working hard every day for a meager income. One day, while he was working in the fields, he met a merchant from out of town, a wealthy man, who was very interested in his grandfather's crops, so he invited his grandfather to eat in his carriage and wanted to talk to him about business. His grandfather was surprised, but also happy, and went with the merchant. When his grandfather got to the carriage, he found that it was full of all kinds of delicious food, chickens, ducks, fish and meat, and all kinds of fruits and desserts, his grandfather had never seen such a sumptuous meal, and he was very excited, but he did not show it, he greeted the merchant very politely, and then sat down to eat. When his grandfather ate, although he was very hungry, he did not eat greedily, he only ate some simple food, such as rice and green vegetables, and also sandwiched some vegetables for the merchant to greet his body and family. When his grandfather ate, he didn't make any sound, he chewed very carefully, swallowed very lightly, and wiped the corners of his mouth with a napkin. When his grandfather was eating, he also talked with the merchant about some farming and the weather, and he spoke decently, neither humble nor arrogant, and did not ask much about the businessman's private affairs. After his grandfather finished eating, he also thanked the merchant, saying that it was the best meal he had in his life, and that he was honored to be friends with the merchant. The merchant listened to his grandfather's words and was very moved, he felt that his grandfather was a very educated person and a very honest person, so he told his grandfather that he wanted to cooperate with his grandfather and sell his crops to other places to earn more money. When his grandfather heard this, he was very happy and agreed to the merchant's proposal. Since then, his grandfather has become partners with merchants, his crops sell well, and he gradually becomes a wealthy man. His grandfather later told his grandson that his success was due to his good food, which made the businessman trust and respect him, so he asked his grandson to learn to eat well as well, so that he could gain a foothold in society.
Seeing a person clearly, eating is more accurate than physiognomyThat's what I want to tell you, and that's what I'm writing this article about. People who eat well are blessed because they can not only enjoy the food, but also win the favor and opportunities of others. Those who eat poorly are in trouble, because they will not only lose the food, but also the trust and friendship of others. There is a saying that eating can show a person's background and cultivation, which is said by American writer William Hansen. "Eating is a mirror of a person, it can reflect a person's origin, education, taste and character," he said. "I couldn't agree more, and I hope you will. Therefore, I appeal to you to be more considerate of others at the dinner table, not only to care about your own appetites, but to be polite and respectful, to be temperate and measured, to have grace and temperament. In this way, you can get along with others at the dinner table and in life, and get more happiness and success.