Duan Rui, she made me see that a person should look inward at himself and take care of his own feelings, no matter what other people's words or the identity brought by marriage, it is not enough to replace his most important feelings.
She is the wife of Cai Lei, a patient with ALS, and I am impressed by the inner strength and spiritual world she shows, and in her, I see the sparkle of a woman.
Her words and deeds are so upward and energetic, her excellence does not lie in whose wife she is, but because she is Duan Rui and she is herself.
The few words she said during the interview made me love her even more and made me anxious.
01.Duan Rui said: "In the eyes of others, I have low emotional intelligence, but when you don't care, it's so easy!" ”
Duan Rui's shielding power is the wisdom of life, and there is no need to care too much about the evaluation of others, let alone be bothered.
Cai Lei and his wife opened a live broadcast room and used all the money for the research and development of ALS drugs.
Cai Lei said that even if he can't use it, he will strive for a chance for the next generation of patients to survive.
But. Someone in the live broadcast room questioned: Duan Rui was laughing too happily in the live broadcast room, which was abnormal.
Duan Rui just smiled, she was never at ease with such bad comments and doubts.
But Cai Lei was very angry when he heard it, and he was always indignant and upset for his wife, so he asked the black fans to go out.
Later, Cai Lei was gradually relieved under Duan Rui's warm smile, and now Cai Lei can also face it calmly.
Everyone should concentrate on doing their own thing and not pay too much attention to the evaluation of others.
The key to success is hard work and focus, not being swayed by outside opinions.
Duan Rui has this kind of wisdom in life, do his own thing, and let others say it.
02.Duan Rui said, "Marriage is the icing on the cake of two people's lifestyles, not a necessity for personal role change. ”
Marriage is not an inevitable way to change the essence of the individual, but a choice, a way of life.
In reality, this society still hopes that sex will judge the value of a woman by marriage and having children, but marriage is not a necessity.
Jia Ling and "Hot and Hot" exploded during the Spring Festival, and she was not only shocked but also inspirational because of the movie **100 pounds.
But on top of the traffic, the verbal criticism that comes from the wind has never stopped. But the most outrageous thing is the focus from the perspective of male gaze:
Jia Ling is thin and beautiful, can she get married and have children? "
There are so many points that can be paid attention to, but some people can't see that they are better than women, and they will only urge marriage and birth.
Some netizens even left a message saying: "Jia Ling** is here to get married, right?" "At this age, it's time to get married. ”
This kind of malice makes people shudder, and the most terrifying thing is that their context is based on the premise of "Jia Ling has lost weight", and it is only when Jia Ling has lost weight that it is possible to start pursuing love? Is it possible for someone to marry her?
It seems that the implication is that ordinary-looking women are not worthy of marriage and baby?
This kind of language that combines women's appearance and marital anxiety is really disliked.
Duan Rui said that marriage is not a necessity for women, but just a change in lifestyle. This sentence went to my heart, and I worshipped her again from my heart.
In September 2022, after a few months of back-and-forth between the office and the anchor job, Duan Rui chose to join Cai Lei's live streaming career full-time.
It was a big decision to give up her career, but she didn't regret it. With the operation of the "Icebreaker Station" in the live broadcast room, Duan Rui once again stimulated his potential on this platform.
And this choice does not mean giving up her career for her lover, she said that she really loves it and really wants to do something for ALS.
Many people say that she has an inseparable love for Cai Lei, praising her for being virtuous, loyal, and never abandoning.
In an interview, Duan Rui said that in fact, I was afraid that people would say this about me. I'm still me, and I'm not only Cai Lei's wife.
Every time Duan Rui led the introduction in the live broadcast room, Cai Lei sat aside, and in front of him was his autobiographical book "Believe".
Cai Lei wrote all his life experiences in this bookThis book records the arduous process of the two people fighting ALS, how they did not give up in despair again and again, and always maintained hope, a very inspirational book.
Icebreaker Station, believe in the power of believing.
Duan Rui believes in the power of love.