Awesome women know these relationship secrets:
They are like drama masters in interpersonal communication, able to flexibly adjust their way of expression according to different occasions and objects. On the surface, it seems innocent, but in fact, he has insight into everything in his heart, but he can do it without changing his face.
They know the trick of getting along with men: keeping a certain distance and coldness can stimulate the enthusiasm of the other person; Excessive investment and attention may make the other person lose interest and become hot and cold to themselves. They know this inside out, so they won't be easily controlled by the other party.
They are immediately sensitive and alert when it comes to matters of their own interests or principles. They are good at pretending to be confused, but in fact, their hearts are as clear as a mirror.
They are adept at using open-ended questions and suggestive words to steer conversations and unknowingly reveal a lot of information. When they meet jealous people, they will make clever concessions and praise each other at the right time, so that the other party has a slight advantage, which is really clever.
They will choose the right dress and dress according to different occasions and objects to maximize their style and temperament. They are always professional and kind, with both taste and personality, both aura and charm, and they impress.
They know how to weigh the pros and cons and don't easily get grudges. They are good at observing and analyzing each other's personalities, habits, emotions, motivations, etc., in order to find out each other's weaknesses and loopholes, so that they can easily control human nature and meet their own needs.
They don't do everything themselves, but like managers, they are good at mobilizing the human resources around them and assigning tasks to the right people. They themselves are in control of the big picture and grasp the overall direction of the matter.
Even when they hear harsh words, they can maintain a semblance of calm and control their emotions. They look at the bigger picture and don't get into trouble on the spur of the moment. On things that are not important or insignificant, they will choose to tolerate or back down; But on important or principled matters, they will resolutely defend their positions and interests.
Their decisions are always decisive and swift. Even in the face of failure, they will not dwell on it, but admit defeat in time and sum up the lessons learned, waiting for the next opportunity to come.
They are clear about their direction and goals, and they are able to distinguish between right and wrong. For important things, they make careful plans and stick to them strictly, without being affected by external interference. In times of crisis, they are able to quickly adjust, stay calm and adapt to the best moments to take action.
Sisters, if you can master these secrets of human relationships and put them into practice, then you will also become great and wonderful women!