With the popularity of marathons, outdoor running is becoming more and more popular among people, especially middle-aged people, who prefer to participate in various running groups and make appointments with runners to sweat together.
So much so that now the group of running groups is popular in all parts of the country, and even many people regard running as a carrier, thinking that joining the running group is an excellent way to enhance interpersonal relationships and contact with the opposite sex.
Then, in the real appointment, if the relationship is not handled properly, it is easy to misunderstand and cause some unnecessary embarrassment.
Therefore, I have always emphasized that you must not be with the opposite sex.
For example, sometimes there is a misunderstanding when you ask out for training alone, because relatively speaking, the running ability of male runners in the running group will be more professional than that of girls, so some women like to ask male runners to lead the run alone, so as to improve their running ability.
You can run alone in private, and you will inevitably be bumped into by acquaintances, and when you stay alone with the opposite sex, it is inevitable that there will be some collisions when you are in physical contact.
There is a Chinese idiom called "love over time", even if the two sides really just come out to run and train, it will affect the subtle changes in the relationship between the two sides for a long time.
Because when running together, you can't just talk about running, but also about some trivial things about life and family, which is for a person with a family, this kind of thing about running alone should try not to happen!
If it is a young couple who are not married and have no partner, then it is a good thing to train each other well.
Generally speaking, we try to avoid running with the opposite sex as much as possible, and some people may scold me for not thinking right, thinking that running is just running, and it is not as complicated as I said.
But is that really the case? I don't even need to say it! Of course, I just suggest that you should not run alone with the opposite sex at a high frequency in the running group.
So, even if we need to run alone with the opposite sex because of training, how can we avoid embarrassment?
First of all,Be sure to communicate each other's time in advance, and it is best for those who have families to tell each other about their running times and plans with their lovers, which is a way to give each other a sense of family security.
Secondly,Respect personal privacy, try not to talk about personal and family issues during running, respect each other's wishes and boundaries, like some topics that the other party is not interested in, should avoid touching and don't ask too much, and try to keep running-related content as much as possible**.
Finally,It's good to keep each other natural, don't deliberately play with each other during running, or run too close to each other and touch your limbs, and deal with the atmosphere of running with the opposite sex in a comfortable way.
In short, run with each other and encourage each other to achieve better results, and you must grasp the size when you are about to run the opposite sex, don't cross the line, and don't try it!
Of course, you can't "run about running" at a high frequency!
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