Every man will have such a dream when he is a child, in the dream he holds a three-foot long sword, the sword shadow flickers, calms the injustices in the world, saves the society in danger, saves the people from fire and water, becomes a big hero praised by everyone, and then marries a beautiful wife, even if she is not a princess, she must be spoiled as a princess.
Every woman will have such a dream when she is a child, in the dream she is as beautiful as a princess, as kind and gentle as a fairy, she waits for a hero-like man, riding a tall horse to marry her, even if she is old and decrepit in the end, the love for her is not diminished!
However, with the passage of the years, in a blink of an eye, the original child has grown up**, started a family, the original beautiful ideas, now I think about it, I only feel naïve, I only feel that all this will only appear in fairy tales, and it is too far away from reality! Maybe it's the pressure of life, or maybe it's the "education" of society, which makes us less naïve, more realistic, lose imagination, lose our love for life and the passion for creating a yearning for life. So when I saw the scene on TV and the Internet that seemed familiar but buried deep in my heart, I felt that life was boring, and I felt that he She was not the person we were destined for, and then there was a quarrel, a quarrel about life, a quarrel about work, and even a quarrel over trivial things, and then they lost their tolerance, trust, and love, and they just felt that looking at each other was an eyesore, listening to each other's voices were noisy, and they just wanted to have their own independent space, until they abandoned everything and chose to divorce, even after the divorce, I still feel that I am not wrong, and it is the other party who is wrong, which is one of the reasons why the divorce rate in my country remains high!
So can we change our minds, or make our childhood dreams longer?
To be her hero is not only to protect her from being bullied, after all, the duty of the police is also to protect the people, so it is more important to give her a sense of security, and her sense of security comes more from the person she trusts the most, rather than from others. So the hurt you did to her was the deepest, the most unbearable for her. A married man should be cautious in life and do less things that will make people fearful. When contacting the opposite sex, it is important to keep a good distance and do not make inappropriate jokes, because it is easy to cause her uneasiness and add unnecessary trouble.
To be her hero not only means to shelter her, but also to be her reliance and support. When she is unsatisfactory at work, when her life is not going well, you are her most important support and support! Of course, there are always many difficulties and challenges in life, at this time you should take the responsibility of a man, bravely and unswervingly hold her hand, through many thorns, jump through the haze, and run to the warm sunshine!
Be her hero, guard her smile, and hold up a piece of heaven for her at all times. No matter how boring your daily life is, you must find ways to use your wit and humor to make her happy, and laugh with her! Even if there is a quarrel, you must be able to bend and stretch, and the rainbow after the wind and rain is the most beautiful!
To be his princess is not only a symbol of status, but also an eternal responsibility and commitment, first of all, to become the most dazzling sunshine in his life, to bring him warmth, so that he is not alone in the cold night, to illuminate the world for him, let him feel the colorful world!
To be his princess, but also to be his dependence, to share the pain and sorrow for him, the hero's road to overcoming thorns and thorns is always full of hardships and dangers, and his life is not smooth sailing, silently support him when he encounters difficulties, accompany him and give him encouragement when he is sad and depressed, so that every time we overcome difficulties together is a memory of love!
Being his princess does not mean giving up your independence and individuality. On the contrary, learn to maintain your own unique charm and become unique in his eyes. This requires hard study, try to improve yourself from different angles, and become a woman with wisdom, taste, and temperament. At the same time, we must maintain our enthusiasm and dreams, and pursue a better future with him with the best attitude.
Being her hero and his princess seems difficult, but it's also easy! Think more about each other, empathize more, and don't lose him in the fast-paced life!
Finally, I wish everyone's love life is sweet and sweet, and give young people a chance to believe in love! Let's get our divorce rate down!