The 65-year-old mother-in-law said that to help her daughter-in-law take care of the baby, she must first make three chapters of the law! Clause.
1. I'll bring it when I go to work, and you can bring it yourself after work! Clause.
2. Don't rely on me to do all the housework alone! You have to give me a fixed 1000 yuan a month! Otherwise, I won't take a baby" Mother-in-law's experience of bringing a baby is praised for being sober in the world
I'm 65 years old, and when I retire, I wanted to travel, dance, and enjoy Qingfu with my old friends. But who knows, my daughter-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy, and I, who is a mother-in-law, can't be idle, and offer to help bring the baby!
However, I don't plan to just blindly plunge into the army with babies. I have to make a three-chapter agreement with my son and daughter-in-law, after all, I have my own life.
First of all, I only help with the baby during working hours, and after work, they young people do it by themselves. I can't keep babysitting for them for free, and they have to learn to take responsibility for themselves.
Secondly, I can't be counted on alone for housework. I'm tired enough to help with the baby, they have to share some of the housework by themselves, which is also a kind of exercise for them.
In the end, I was given a fixed 1,000 yuan a month. It's not that I'm greedy for their money, but I want them to understand that there is a cost to bringing a baby, and we can't blindly make us elderly pay.
My son and daughter-in-law didn't understand these conditions at first, and they thought I was too calculating. But I told them that it was a sign of my responsibility to our family, and they eventually understood and accepted it.
In this way, I began my career as a baby. Although it can be tiring at times, I am also full of joy to see my little grandson grow up day by day.
Once, when my daughter-in-law came home from work and saw that I was coaxing my little grandson, she quickly took the child and said to me, "Mom, you have worked hard, I will cook tonight." I smiled and nodded, feeling extremely warm in my heart.
At night, my grandson fell asleep, and I sat on the sofa in the living room, watching TV. My son came over, took out a bank card, and said to me, "Mom, this is this month's money, you can take it." I took it, put it in my purse, looked at him, and said, "You young people have to live a good life, and don't always spend money recklessly." He nodded and said, "Mom, we know." ”
I feel that I have fulfilled the responsibilities of a mother-in-law, and I hope to have their understanding and support.
Although my life is no longer the free-spirited days I used to have, I don't regret it. Because, I know, what I am doing is for my family, for my little grandson, and this is my responsibility as a mother-in-law.
I hope that my experience can be helpful for mothers-in-law who want to help with their baby. Remember, the three chapters of the covenant are not about the calculations, but about our responsibility to the family, and our understanding and support for our children.