There is a saying on the Internet that says: "A man's heart, a soul rejuvenation needle." ”
The meaning of this sentence is that a man's mind is always changing and difficult to guess.
But in fact, no matter how unpredictable a man is, he will also have his emotional dead ends, especially the following three emotional dead ends, women must know.
In this way, you can better manage your feelings and keep your intimate relationship fresh for a long time.
*。1.His past: respect and understanding.
Man, who doesn't want to mention the past, it may be Duan's falling love, or Duan's very difficult days.
For them, these things are not only a scar in their hearts, but also a mark of growth.
Women are sometimes quite extreme in the face of men's past: either they are full of curiosity and have to break the casserole to ask the end;
Or just don't take it seriously at all and think that the past is not a big deal.
But to be honest, both of these practices are easy to poke at the sore spot of men.
The best thing to do is to give men enough respect and understanding.
You can show that you are willing to listen to him, but at the same time you have to give him some space to himself.
If he is willing to speak, listen patiently. If he chooses not to say it, you silently support him.
Remember, the past is meant to grow, not to frame the present.
2.His spiritual needs: attention and support.
In this world, men often have to pretend to be iron, have to be successful, and have to know everything.
This kind of pressure makes them have to hide the weakness in their hearts and dare not expose it easily.
What they want is not only money, things and other visible things, but also spiritual comfort and understanding.
*。At this time, women can be good listeners and care more about those things in men's hearts.
For example, if he encounters a problem at work, or feels tired and panicked in life, you can give him some encouragement and affirmation.
Let him feel that he is not alone, and you are by his side to cheer him on.
This kind of moral support is stronger than giving him any expensive gifts.
3.His self-esteem: respect and encouragement.
Men's self-esteem is like a treasure in their emotional world, which is particularly sensitive.
They are afraid of being looked down upon, afraid of losing face.
In love, a woman's words and eyes may frustrate their self-esteem.
Therefore, when a woman deals with a man, she must know how to respect their self-esteem.
For example, in a crowded place, you have to save face for him;
Chat in private, and don't be too tough or pressing.
*。If a man encounters a setback, don't laugh at him or deny him, but encourage him and trust him to get through.
This kind of respect and encouragement can make him feel your love and can also make him more confident.
Epilogue] "I always don't believe that love can be hot and long, but I am always defeated by you. ”
This sentence is quite interesting, it talks about the kind of contradiction and helplessness in love.
We always think that love should be warm and lasting, but in reality, we are often defeated by reality.
In fact, how can there be such a perfect love, those relationships that can last need to be managed and maintained by both parties.
The most direct way to fall in love with a man is to understand his heart, know that his weakness is in **, and then take care of him with your heart.
In this way, your relationship can stay fresh, and two people can become more and more inseparable from each other.
Finally, I hope that each of us can find someone who can be with us for a lifetime, go through the ups and downs together, and enjoy that deep love forever.
Meeting is fate, knowing each other is happiness, and you can understand each other's hearts without saying a word.