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Progress with your daughter to optimize your mood
The happy time of the Spring Festival was spent happily, and now the people of the whole country have taken care of it - students go to school, workers produce, peasants work, civil servants go to work, and they have begun to work and study intensively and hecticly. I wish my daughter a smooth work and a happy day!
There is one detail that will have a great impact on your future work and life, and I have to bring it up and improve it. Maybe it's genetics, I speak very impulsively, your mother also speaks, and you also rush like the back waves of the Yangtze River rush the front waves. For example, on the sixth day of the first lunar month, your aunt Shuying invited a treat, and your uncle handed me a cigarette to smoke out of politeness, and I said that I had quit smoking. He still said enthusiastically that it was okay to smoke one. You took the conversation and said to your uncle, you can't smoke, you have to smoke. You don't know it yourself, you are quite impulsive when you say this, we are embarrassed, your uncle is also embarrassed, and Qi Kai also whispered "fool" to show that you don't want to say this.
When you speak impulsively, you are actually angry in your heart, and your emotions will undergo a series of changes: your face is gloomy, your tone is sharp, your speech speed increases, and you stab at each other like an awl. It's obviously a good intention, but the other party can't accept it. Sometimes emotions are chaotic, and things that shouldn't be said are spoken, which often has bad consequences.
The harm of speaking rush is enormous. It hurts feelings for others, and people who speak impulsively often do not consider the feelings of others, and the other person will be hurt, which can lead to interpersonal tension or alienation, and in serious cases, it can lead to conflict and even fights. For oneself, it affects physical and mental health, because the language is impulsive, and the heart is angry, and anger is obviously not good for the body and mind.
Something similar happened the day before I went to Anhui for the first time, and I told you this verbally, so I won't repeat it here.
Therefore, in our work and life, when we do the other party's ideological work or criticize the other party's mistakes, we should especially respect the feelings of others, optimize our emotions first, and consider what to say and what not to say. Speak with a smile on your face, demeanor elegantly, a soft tone, and a tactful voice that makes it easy for the other person to accept your thoughts and opinions. "If you want to pump, you will smoke", this kind of undesirable behavior, absolutely do not push it to the other party.