We've all had the experience of meeting someone suddenly and suddenly feeling like an electric shock. So you might be wondering why I'm so attracted to him, her? Actually, there's a bit of psychology in that. Let's analyze why we like others so easily. I hope it helps you better understand your inner emotions
1.Remember the first time you met: The feeling you feel when you meet someone for the first time is especially important.
First impressions refer to the fact that when we evaluate people, we often make judgments based on first impressions. When we meet someone for the first time, our brain immediately remembers their appearance, facial expressions, voice, etc., and based on that, we can judge whether we like or dislike them. If a person makes a good first impression on you, you're more likely to like the person.
2. Common things are more cute: familiar people are more likable.
*Effect simply means that we instinctively prefer what we see regularly. The more time we spend with someone, our brains gradually get used to them and the closer we feel to them. After all, we look at the same faces every day, how can we not feel feelings for them? Therefore, many young couples when they were students often choose to participate in the same classes, participate in the same club activities, etc. It is for this reason.
3.People who look like you are more approachable: People who look like you are more attractive.
People tend to like people who are close to them. This is the law of similarity, and people who have a lot in common in values, hobbies, and living habits are especially attracted to each other. Because this similarity means that communication is comfortable, there is less conflict, and the feelings will naturally be deeper.
4. Complementarity can last a long time: two people need to complement each other.
Similar to similarity, there is also the principle of complementarity. Complementarity mainly refers to the ability of two people's personalities, abilities, and professional fields to complement each other and support each other, thus generating great attraction. It is precisely because of this complementarity that two people can establish a relationship of dependence, mutual support and maintain psychological balance when they become friends.
5. If you look at beautiful things for a long time, you will no longer feel beautiful. Attractiveness often comes from the attractiveness of appearance.
According to the Law of Attraction, people are instinctively attracted to such things. You will be attracted to people who are healthy, energetic, energetic, and empowered. This is because good-looking people may have good genes and good reproductive abilities, and people tend to develop a crush on such people. The law of attraction is also reflected in our appreciation and pursuit of beauty, and beautiful things are always admirable.
6.Hard work always pays off. Good feedback is the biggest motivator.
According to the reward theory, people tend to like people who give them fun and excitement. For example, when we interact with someone, the more positive feedback they give us, such as care, support, and praise, the more likely we are to feel good about that person. When you like someone, you are willing to pay for him, and the other party's reward becomes your greatest encouragement, forming a virtuous circle.
In short, there are many reasons to like someone. In addition to the first impression, ** effect, similarity principle, complementarity principle, law of attraction, reward theory, and many other factors mentioned above. Understanding these psychological principles will certainly help you explore your inner feelings more deeply, but it will also help you apply them more wisely in your daily life and make your love life more exciting.