I really don't know what I've done wrong.
I remember when I first arrived, my son and daughter-in-law received me warmly. Their home is very chic, with a sense of happiness and warmth in every corner. When my daughter-in-law found out that I was coming to stay, she said excitedly that she would prepare all kinds of snacks and fruits for me. But since I got here, my daughter-in-law hasn't seen a smile on her face.
Dialogue. 
Daughter-in-law, what's upset about you? I asked tentatively.
No, Mom, I'm fine. My daughter-in-law still answered me with a straight face.
But ......I feel like you're a little hostile to me. I expressed my doubts with a slight tact.
The daughter-in-law was silent for a moment and did not speak.
Could it be that I did something wrong? If you don't like me living here, I can move to a nursing home. I said with some anxiety.
No, Mom, you're mistaken. The daughter-in-law finally spoke, "I'm just ......."Just a little unaccustomed to having strangers at home. ”
When I heard this, my heart suddenly lit up. Maybe I should give her some time to settle into the family.
However, the granddaughter has a different attitude.
Grandma, why are you so troublesome, it's really annoying. My granddaughter pouted at me and made no secret of her displeasure.
It was as if I had been stabbed in the heart, and I couldn't straighten my waist in pain. I just wanted to spend more time with my children and grandchildren in my twilight years, talk and chat, but I seem to have done something wrong to get this kind of treatment.
Kid, did grandma do something that made you angry? "I tried to calm myself and try to understand my granddaughter.
No, grandma just made a mess at home, and I have a place to play! The granddaughter said angrily.
I'm sorry, baby, it's grandma that's bad, I'll pay attention to it later. "I tactfully apologized to my granddaughter.
However, my granddaughter ignored me and walked away.
I was in a depressed mood and suddenly realized that this place might not really be for me. I seem to be a superfluous existence, which makes both my daughter-in-law and granddaughter feel dissatisfied. Perhaps, I should consider moving out and not bothering their lives anymore.
However, my son asked me a question at this time.
Mom, do you want to move out? He looked at me with concern and concern in his eyes.
Son, how could I want to move out? But I feel like I'm causing you a lot of trouble. I said with some embarrassment.
Mom, don't think like that. You are my mother, and you will always be the most important person in our family, no matter what. The son's tone was full of firmness and tenderness, "I know that the current situation at home makes you uncomfortable, but please believe me, I will talk to my daughter-in-law and daughter to make them more tolerant." ”
I was so moved by my son's words that I almost burst into tears. He has always been gentle and kind, and he is a good father who knows how to tolerate and understand. Looking at him, I suddenly felt that I had a person to rely on, a warmth and hope.
Thank you, son. I'll wait until they're willing to accept me. I smiled at my son.
Before I knew it, I had been living at my son's house for half a month. My daughter-in-law finally had a smile on her face, and she would report to me every day about the big and small things in the family, and ask me if I needed anything. My granddaughter has also become lively, and she will pull me to play games and do crafts together. The home is full of warmth and harmony.
Grandma, the flowers in our house are blooming, you see. My granddaughter took my hand and said excitedly.
Well, it's beautiful. I looked at her with a smile and emotion.
Grandma, I love how you feel at home. It turns out that with you, the home will become so warm. The granddaughter expressed her emotions frankly.
Thank you, dear, I love it here too. "I hugged my granddaughter, and my eyes were full of relief.
Every moment in life has a different color and taste, there is sadness, there is joy, there is separation, and there is reunion. In life, we need not only tolerance and understanding, but also effective communication and emotional connection between each other. Taking a step of tolerance may be able to exchange the seeds of tenacious love that will take deep root in each other's hearts.
My daughter-in-law and granddaughter's attitude towards me has suddenly changed so much, and I feel extremely relieved and grateful. I understood that in this family, I am not a superfluous existence, but a member who is needed and cherished. This emotional exchange of tolerance and understanding warmed me and strengthened my determination to stay at my son's house.
After this period of mutual understanding and tolerance, I have slowly adapted to life here. Every morning, my son cooks me a bowl of nutritious soup, my daughter-in-law combs my hair and picks out my clothes, and my granddaughter walks and plays with me. With such care and pampering, I began to regain my courage and enthusiasm for life.
One sunny weekend, I was fiddling with my own flowers in the garden. Suddenly, my son came over.
Mom, I'm going to take you somewhere tonight. The son said mysteriously.
Oh? Go**? I asked curiously.
You'll find out later. The son smiled mysteriously.
In the evening, my son drove me to the beach. At night, the waves lapping on the shore, under the stars, and the sea breeze blowing on my face, made me feel a sense of relief and tranquility.
Mom, this is a little secret of our family. Every time I feel irritable or stressed, I come here and look up at the stars and the waves, and my mood becomes calm. My son explained to me.
I felt as if there was a tacit understanding between my son and me. I silently looked at the sea, immersed in the peace of mind. At that moment, I felt as if I had gained a transcendent power in the bosom of nature, I was no longer afraid of anything, and I wanted to live a stronger and calmer life.
On the way home, I looked at the starry sky, and the endless vastness and tranquility became a kind of sustenance in my heart.
In the days that followed, I learned that there is infinite power in inclusion. With my son and daughter-in-law by my side, I feel like I still have infinite possibilities in my old age.
Mom, are you willing to wait a little longer? My son said to me gently.
yes, kid, I do. There is so much warmth and happiness here that I am reluctant to leave. I said to him with emotion.
That's great. Mom, you know what? In my heart, you will always be the most important person. My son held my hand tightly.
I feel so happy and happy that I feel like I'm back to my younger self. In this home, I have found my own harbor and happiness. Perhaps, this is life, there is sadness and happiness, there is separation and reunion, there is tolerance and understanding and more abundant happiness. Feel the warmth in tolerance, gain strength in understanding, and comprehend the meaning of life in peace. All this makes me deeply believe that each of our lives should be full of warmth and love, because this is the greatest harvest in our lives.
The moonlight shines on the surface of the sea, sparkling. I leaned quietly on the railing, savoring the tranquility and vastness of the sea. My son stayed quietly with me and didn't speak. At this moment, on the seashore where my heart is as calm as water, I began to secretly savor the profundity of life.
Mom, what are you thinking? My son broke the silence and asked me.
I'm thinking, in life, we've been through a lot. There was laughter, and there were tears. I used to have a lot of anxiety and confusion, and the old age made me feel even more helpless. When I came here, I felt the warmth and tolerance of home, and I felt extremely peaceful and comfortable. I took a deep breath and whispered.
Mom, I can understand your feelings. Sometimes, the stress of life can wear us out. Home is not only a place to live for you, but also a place to rely on. We are willing to be your harbor and make your stay here happy and happy. "My son enlightened me gently.
His words seemed to give me an antidote. In his eyes, I saw that care and love, and I also understood that I was not superfluous, on the contrary, I was the most important member of this family. I feel that the lonely seedling in my heart is also slowly growing.
The sea is still so quiet, it seems to quietly give me a sense of stability and tranquility. There was a strong feeling in my heart, and I reveled in this simple love.
Finally, I understood that tolerance is a realm, and understanding is a strength. From my son and daughter-in-law's tolerance and understanding of me, I feel that I have been mended and my heart has become stronger. This home, this warm harbor, allowed me to rediscover myself and find my own happiness.
The days are as quiet and beautiful as flowing water, and now I have gradually adapted to the life here, and gradually relieved in the embrace of the sea. Whenever I look at the happy and healthy smiling faces of my family, my heart is full of emotion and satisfaction.
Everyone is looking for their own place and role in the long years. Over the years, we have gradually learned to be considerate and tolerant, to gain strength in mutual understanding, and to feel happiness in mutual care. All this constitutes the most beautiful picture of our lives.
The love and care of my son and daughter-in-law made me feel a kind of warmth and vitality of spring. I learned that the power of inclusion is so powerful and beautiful. In this family, I feel that I have found my own warmth and learned to cherish the little things in life.
The warmth of this home and the tolerance of the harbor made me understand once again that life requires us to feel the warmth with our hearts and tolerate and understand with our hearts. And when we tolerate and understand with our hearts, our hearts will also receive the most sincere care and warmth. All this constitutes the most beautiful picture of our lives.