I want to quit gambling, but I want to gamble when I have money, why?

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-03-01

A gambling person asked in a background message: "In the past few years of gambling, I have lost more than 800,000 yuan, and every time I always tell myself that I can't gamble anymore, but as soon as the salary is paid, or after my parents give some financial subsidies, I will start to gamble again, and then persuade myself to gamble, why can't I control it!?" "It's not uncommon in gambling circles to think about quitting gambling and forgetting to quit gambling when you have money, why do you realize that gambling is not good, or continue to touch it? Briefly describe a few scenarios for everyone to feel.

Scenario 1

Suppose you are an ordinary worker, doing a busy job of 996, and the monthly salary of hard work can only reach more than 10,000 yuan, you have spent several years saving money and hard work, and your body is almost exhausted to save nearly 200,000 savings. One day, you inadvertently clicked into a certain gambling **, and exchanged a few thousand yuan for 100,000 yuan in a week, at that moment, what kind of psychology would you have? When it is found that hard-earned money is far less fast than gambling to make a windfall, gamblers will be thinking about it, hoping to gamble for the rest of their lives as soon as possible, and they will want to place a bet as soon as they have a little money left.

Scenario two

The outcome of frequent betting is undoubtedly a loss. When you lose money at first, even if you only lose a little money you win, as a gambler, you will be full of anger and unwillingness because you feel that your possessions have been taken away, and then you will increase your bets and want to win back what you lost. Unfortunately, it often backfires, and the more you gamble, the more you lose, until you lose all your winnings, and you have to save money. The hard-earned money earned with youth disappears, followed by madness, obsessed you, in addition to the work to ensure life, will gradually take gambling as the most important thing in daily life, as soon as you have money, you want to gamble.

Scenario three

At the end of the madness, the status quo is getting more and more miserable, overdrawing all the practices to gamble, bills are coming one after another, and parents are emptying everything to pay off your debts. Out of guilt and dissatisfaction, you reverted to gambling in a bad mood, and your debts exploded again, and you had no choice but to confess to your parents again. My parents hated that iron could not become steel, and they couldn't bear to give up, so they smashed the pot and sold iron again to pay off your debts. After transferring the debt pressure, you are much more relaxed, there is only one thing to quit gambling to do, but there is nothing to do, you are idle, you gamble again, thinking about gambling again to earn back a little is a little, you think you will not go up, unexpectedly reincarnated again, whitewashing, borrowing, money and want to gamble.

Scenario 4

Re-gambling many times, the family has no strength to cover for you, forced to be cornered by countless creditors, and there is no way to raise enough money to solve it, you are "forced to go to Liangshan", you have to plan to fight in the end, and go to the gambling to "fight to the end". After that, in order to pay off the debt, you will always tell yourself to "try again", as long as you have money, you want to gamble for a chance to pay off the debt, and the cycle repeats, infinitely, until there is nothing.

These are the four reasons why gamblers at different levels of gambling want to gamble as soon as they have money: because they win money, because they are unwilling to lose money, because they have someone to do it, and because they want to repay their debts. Unfortunately, the power behind every gambling ** or casino is strong and cannot be shaken by single-handedly gamblers, and the more they struggle, the tighter the shackles of gambling will be. Therefore, unless you know how to take profit and stop loss in time, winning and pleasure are just the process, and losing money and pain are the end.

Quit gambling early, there is a way out!

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