It's really uncomfortable to be disrespected. But at the same time, we should reflect on why others don't respect you. Is it because you lack confidence? It's still too mild-mannered, and it's easy for people to feel like bullies.
In interpersonal interactions, dignity is crucial because it is the bottom line of your dealings with others. Therefore, taking a reciprocal attitude in the face of people who disrespect you is one way to gain the upper hand. This approach may seem direct and crude, but it is most effective in the short term. Because people usually tend to bully the weak and fear the hard, if others dare to disrespect you, it is actually a contempt for your strength and ability. So, don't always act weak, but show yourself once in a while and let them know that you have a strong side too. Only in this way will others be in awe of you and dare not cross the line to provoke.
Remember, there is an unspoken rule of human nature: you can not lose your temper when you have strength, but if you are not strong, you must maintain a certain temper, because that is your only **. Those who say never let your temper outweigh your abilities are often fooling you. Because in life, many short-tempered people are often due to their own lack of strength, but they can also rely on their temper to defend their dignity. Therefore, in the face of people who directly disrespect you, you don't need to be polite, just return the favor and respect the other party.
Ignoring each other is the greatest contempt! If a person does not respect you, it is a matter of his own qualities. You choose not to care because you don't want to lower your cultivation. Some people don't even deserve a response from you. However, neglect is only a temporary solution, and you have to work to change the status quo and let those who disrespect you slowly disappear from your life. And the way to achieve this is to try to improve yourself, so that your strength is far superior to those who disrespect you, and make them feel ashamed in front of you, which is the real victory.
Many times, a temporary victory is just a superficial battle, and a real victory is one that has stood the test of time. Therefore, reciprocating is just a momentary temper, and the real way to solve the problem is to work hard to improve yourself.
Unsatisfactory things happen in life from time to time, and evil in human nature is unavoidable. Therefore, in the face of those who do not respect you, we should be open-minded and treat them with a normal heart, because most of these people are not strong enough in their hearts and have suffered more setbacks in life. Remember, the strong are always up-hearted, and for the inferior, whether the eyes are up or down, they are full of tolerance and compassion. Only the weak will indulge in those who are weaker than themselves, because they can only find a little bit of dignity when compared to those who are weaker than themselves.
Therefore, don't be easily influenced by others, be open-minded, and treat all kinds of things in life with a tolerant attitude. When you can do that, your state of mind is far greater than that of those who disrespect you.
In life, qi can be divided into two types: one is the qi that is swallowed, and the other is the qi that turns it into the driving force for growth. When a person is strong in heart and strong in spirit, any difficulties are not a problem for him because he is capable enough to deal with them. Therefore, in the face of people who do not respect you, you can either treat you with courtesy and pay respect, or choose to ignore it and work silently behind your back, or look at it with a Buddhist mentality, focus on doing your best and not be disturbed by the outside world. When you can do that, you've won.