Don't get entangled with bad people and bad things, in addition to saying that bad people and bad things affect our emotions and consume our time and energy, the main thing is that bad people and bad things will assimilate us, make us become the same people as them, and do the same things with them.
Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black.
A villain is a person who makes you feel comfortable, and when you feel too comfortable yourself, you have to beware of whether there is a villain around you.
Because villains will flatter, will pat on the back, and will pick on the weaknesses of human nature in you to please.
In the Lai Changxing case many years ago, Lai Changxing wanted to "give gifts" to a professor, and the beauty, money, and favors could not impress the professor.
After the multi-party attack failed, Lai Changxing chose to "attack the unprepared", brought a cart full of books to the professor, and brought almost all the books in the field that the professor liked to study, including some rare and unique books.
The professor fell in an instant.
Just like when Xilaile in "Divine Doctor Xilaile" insisted on leaving the capital and returning to his hometown in Cangzhou, the prince took Xilaile to a house.
The prince in the TV series is not a villain, but there are many villains in the Tai Hospital in the capital, and they are jealous of Xilaile. )
As a result, Xilale ushered in right and wrong and misfortune.
Master Nan Huaijin said that no matter what hobby is loved, once it is excessive, it becomes an attachment.
This attachment is often their fatal weakness, and if they don't wake up in time, they give the villain an opportunity.
A true gentleman will have a critical voice for himself, and he needs to be grateful for this voice and listen attentively.
For example, Li Shimin and Wei Zheng, Wei Zheng stared at Li Shimin like an invigilator and restricted Li Shimin like an elder.
made Li Shimin feel that life was boring, but when he became an emperor, he became a governing machine, and he could never slack off, and he had no right to enjoy life.
But because Li Shimin accepted Wei Zheng and created the beginning of the prosperous era of the Tang Dynasty, Li Longji later indulged in himself, just listening to what was good, but let the Tang Dynasty go into decline.
Don't always expect that you can "get out of the mud without being stained", when you are in the environment of the villain, few people can not be polluted by the same stream.
The best way to stay away from villains is not to give them a chance.
No one can resist the outburst of desire, unless you start by reminding yourself to be vigilant and stay away.
It's like smoking, drinking, don't try it lightly.
Rui Xiaodan in "The Way of Heaven" started smoking, but he learned it when he was an undercover agent because he solved a case, and then he didn't quit.
It wasn't until she met **Ying that she made up her mind to quit smoking. How many people can have the realm of Rui Xiaodan in their lives, and can do what they say?
Teacher Huashan said that whoever you are with, you will become, this is human instinct. Please be cautious in choosing who you are close to, carefully choose the circle you enter, overconfidence is "fatal conceit".
Before Guan Zhong died, he told Qi Huan Gong to stay away from Yi Ya, Kai Fang and Ji Diao, but Qi Huan Gong promised to do it, but he didn't do it.
Is it Qi Huan Gong who doesn't know that they are villains?Is it that Qi Huan Gong doesn't believe Guan Zhong's judgment?
Definitely!It was Qi Huan Gong who was too confident, and he believed that he could not be "defiled" by the villain.
Let's ask, can a person who is served by villains every day be a gentleman all the time?
None of the people as wise as Qi Huan Gong have done it, let alone us ordinary people.
Qi Huan Gong was starved to death, and after his death, he could not sleep underground in time, and his body was left unattended for more than 60 days, and maggots crawled all over the house.
Overconfidence is a fatal wound on the human body, and staying away from overconfidence will naturally heal the fatal wound.
Overconfidence is not a strength, it is a disadvantage, it is a weakness.
The ways and principles of self-management, such as waking up early and going to bed early, reading every day, running every day, eating a healthy diet, etc., must be established in a good environment, otherwise everything will be meaningless.
The establishment of a good self-environment requires us to stay away from the rights and wrongs of villains and abandon the human weaknesses of overconfidence.
I am Hongling, pay attention to me, we learn, change and grow together.