My friend told me my secret, and I regretted it the next day, how can I save myself?

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-03-07

Xin Qiji

Such a story is recorded in Zhao Wei's "Raising the Manbi" of the Song Dynasty.

Xin Qiji has a close friend, that is, the founder of the "Yongkang School", Chen Liang.

When Xin Qiji was the coach of Huaidi, Chen Liang had not yet embarked on a career and his life was very depressed.

One day he went to visit Xin Qiji, and the two drank and chatted very happily.

The atmosphere is in place, slightly drunk just up, Xin Qi is energetic.

He began to talk about his views on the current situation, and also talked about some military aircraft strategies.

He said that the Qiantang area is not suitable for building a capital.

As long as the Jin people occupied Niutou Mountain, they cut off the road for reinforcements.

If the water of the West Lake is flooded, Lin'an City will be broken.

That night, the two drank a lot of wine.

Xin Qiji asked Chen Liang to stay overnight, wait for the wine to wake up, and come back tomorrow.

Chen Liang was lying in bed in the middle of the night, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt that something was wrong

This old friend of mine is usually old and serious, not a man of many words.

When he wakes up, he will definitely regret his "slip of the tongue", and he will probably kill me.

Without further ado, Chen Liang stole Xin Qiji's horse and fled overnight.

After Xin Qiji woke up, he really regretted it.

When he looked for Chen Liang, he found that he had run away, and Xin Qiji was shocked.

A month later, Chen Liang wrote a letter to Xin Qiji, asking him to give 100,000 yuan to help.

The letter hinted at what Xin Qiji said that night, and Lao Xin had to pay for it in his pocket.

The first time I read this story, I can't help but be amazed, Chen Liang is too villain.

But the strange thing is that after this incident, Xin Qiji not only did not break off his friendship with him, but also made this friend "baby".

Chen Liang was imprisoned, and Xin Qiji mobilized all his resources to catch him.

Chen Liang is at home, and every time Xin Qiji returns to Beijing to report on work, he has to make a special detour to see him.

Xin Qiji has a unique and imposing masterpiece, called "He Bridegroom Sees Peace with His Father, and Answers It with Rhyme".

It was created in response to Chen Liang:

The boss said. It seems that now, Yuanlong smells, and Meng Gong has something to do with it. My sick gentleman came to sing and drink, and the snow flew on the building.

Laughing at wealth and wealth, like hair. Who will listen to the hard words, remember the time, only the west window month. Re-enter the wine, change the song.

It's no different, people are different. After all, ask Qu Nong and Shenzhou, several clutches. No one cares about the sweat, blood and salt car, and thousands of miles empty to collect the bones.

The eyes are broken, and the road to the river is cut off. I pity you the most for dancing in the middle of the night, and the man is like a man to death. Look at the test hand and mend the crack.

So what did Chen Liang write to Lao Xin first?

Who's going to say it's old. Look at a few times, miraculously stinky rotten, summer Qiu and winter kudzu. There are a few remnants of Chang'an today, and there is no revenge to be had.

It was still dry, and it was growing at that time. How much hatred is in the twenty-five strings, counting the world, there is an equal month. Hu Nu Lane, Han Gong Se.

The tree is like this. Only the king, never with me, talk a lot. It's useless to ask, who will change Yan skin and bones.

But don't make it, Bo Ya is absolutely gone. Nine turns of dansha are picked up firmly, and the tube is pure gold, just ordinary iron. The dragon and the tiger are cracked.

It's hard to imagine that this is a "friend of villains".

The classic sentence "Pick up the lamp to see the sword when you are drunk, and dream of blowing the horn and the battalion" was made by Lao Xin to support his brother when Chen Lianghuai did not meet.

When Chen Liang died, Lao Xin wrote in the memorial text: "Everyone wants to kill, but I have mercy on the talent." ”

Sure enough, among thousands of people, I am the only one who favors you.

Such wishful thinking, is Lao Xin sticking a cold ass with a hot face?

In his "Longchuan Anthology", Chen Liang talked about his feelings when he saw the portrait of Xin Qiji:

The real rat is used in vain, the real tiger can not be used, and the one who uses it is also the pet of heaven. “

The Southern Song Dynasty court was really blind, and the tiger and the mouse were stupid and couldn't tell the difference.

If you use Lao Xin, you will become the darling of heaven in seconds.

It all relied on Zhu Xi to release pigeons, and achieved a good story of Xin and Chen's "Goose Lake Meeting".

is obviously a hero and cherishes a hero, why did Chen Liang knock on his buddy's bamboo pole?

Feng Menglong of the Ming Dynasty included this anecdote in the "Complete Works of the Wisdom Tank" and compiled it in the "Wise Ministry of Billions".

"100 million" is to see the big from the small, Lao Feng believes that Chen Liang is not a villain, but a wise move.

He said that since the existence of the universe, there has been a contrast between "light" and "dark" in the world.

If people do not know, they will fall into confusion and ignorance, like a blind man riding a blind horse, and he will fall into the abyss and be crushed to pieces.

For the "dark" people, the real dilemma is complicated, unpredictable, and they don't know how to choose.

For "clear" people, everything is clear, traceable, and can be easily solved.

As long as you observe the reality of the object and see the origin of the matter, you can detect it in an instant, and any hidden hook and secret plot will not hide it from me.

So what kind of truth did Chen Liang insight?

Friends, no matter how deep or shallow the relationship, no matter how high or low the qualifications, no matter how strong and soft the personality, no matter what the aura, is still essentially a person.

If you are human, you will be governed by human nature.

Xin Qiji's gaffe after drinking was a serious mistake.

This not only involves military secrets and the interests of the world, but also endangers Lao Xin's own net worth.

Chen Liang can be regarded as having encountered a "disaster of innocence": I don't want to hear it, you want to talk about it.

Speaking of which, it's all a workplace ** lake, don't you have any points in your heart?

Feng Menglong said that the mouth is like a wave, and the vulgar intestine is like a scumbag.

Even capable people and celebrities like Xin Qiji will inevitably occasionally let their "vulgar intestines" run out.

At this point, he didn't expect that this was the "dark" of Xin Qiji.

Chen Liang put aside factors such as friendship, temperament, and talent, and rationally saw the potential risks of this incident to his old friend.

If you push others and yourself, it will not be difficult to figure out the worst-case scenario you may face.

As the saying goes, mercy is not in charge of the army, and benevolence is not in charge.

Xin Qiji is a person who leads troops to fight, and he fights battles that are related to the survival of the country.

If Chen Liang leaks secrets, will it be a big price to lose friends, or a big price to lose mountains and rivers?

The lesser of two evils is the nature of human nature.

If Chen Liang always naively emphasized to himself: He trusted me to tell me this.

It will only confuse one's own judgment of right and wrong.

Why do you need money when you have already fled for your life?

This incident arose because of the "vulgar intestines" of Xin Qi's disease.

After sobering up, Xin Qijian must be very nervous and suspicious.

It won't be because Chen Liang escaped, this matter will be forgotten.

Chen Liang wrote a letter asking for money, in order to let Xin Qiji's worries come to fruition.

If he had said, I would have promised not to say a word about that night, just because of our relationship.

There is a high probability that the Xin abandonment disease will still be extinguished.

Because he himself has been in a situation where he has not kept his mouth shut.

Chen Liang, who is also a human being, how can he ensure that he does not make the mistakes that all human beings will make?

Chen Liang opened his mouth to ask for money, which was to prove to Xin Qiji that I am a layman like you.

Since ancient times, many capable people have chosen to "insult themselves" in order to protect themselves.

For example, pretending to love money, or pretending to be lustful.

Deliberately revealing some small handles for people to handle, you can reassure your superiors or enemies.

As the saying goes, "when the water is clear, there are no fish", people who have no weakness are easy to be wary of.

Chen Liang took this opportunity to ask for money, on the one hand, to show Xin Qiji's "weakness".

On the other hand, it also pulled the two back to an equal position.

Both of us are laymen, and neither of us is much better than the other.

not only dispelled Lao Xin's concerns, but also gave the brothers who made low-level mistakes to step down.

In fact, Chen Liang is also lucky, and a wonderful scene needs a good opponent to cooperate.

A smart person like Lao Xin certainly knows how to climb the pole.

This ** is blackmail, and it is obviously an oath.

After all, it was himself who stabbed Louzi, and it was not considered compensation to his brother.

The ancients said that friends are very close to each other, and they are not far from being estranged.

If the distance is too short, it is easy to be dense and overlooked.

I can't see myself clearly, and I can't read others.

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