Wen Lingling.
Introduction: In this life, no matter who you meet, you must love yourself well, learn to live for yourself, live your own life, and live a sober life to make yourself better.
Thirty-eight, to women: women's true sobriety starts from reading these few words!
1. Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone, and always stay sober.
In this life, it is actually not easy for a woman, once she pays someone wrongly, it will have a huge impact on her life.
Women, whether you are married, in love, or making friends, do not overestimate your relationship with others, do not expect so much, and do not pin your hopes on others, but lower your expectations, have your own things to do, and do not ask others, but learn to rely on yourself.
In fact, no matter how good the relationship with you is, the person may change his mind about you, it may be someone who takes advantage of you, or even someone who can't see you well.
Therefore, it is best for us to be ourselves, live our own lives, and follow our own paths.
Second, no one will be your eternal safe haven, it is better to be your own dock.
Miss Wang in "Flowers" said that I want to make my own dock.
Miss Wang is a very brave and strong, capable and talented person, she also admits defeat, and always becomes more and more courageous.
Even when you encounter a low point in your life, you will always face it strongly, not be defeated, and become stronger.
In the end, Ms. Wang was able to succeed in entrepreneurship and always remain independent, all because she aspired to be her own dock without relying on the light of others.
In this life, women have to learn to rely on themselves, confidence and face are actually fought for by themselves, life also needs to be created by themselves, no one can be your lifelong dependence, counting on others, it is better to rely on yourself, it is better to be your own dock.
In this life, a woman must learn to be an independent woman, which is the most powerful.
3. No matter what the family of origin is, you must learn to define your own life.
Life is your own, don't keep giving up your life because of your family of origin.
Even if your family of origin is bad, you have to fight for yourself, change your destiny by yourself, don't resent, don't blame, but learn to reconcile with your family of origin, learn to reconcile with yourself.
Happy people spend their childhood ** for a lifetime, and unfortunate people use ** for a lifetime ** childhood.
No matter what you have experienced in life, we must learn to accept imperfections, love ourselves well, plan our lives well, redefine our lives, you can.
Fourth, don't consume yourself, stay confident and optimistic.
In this life of a woman, if you have anything you want to do, just do it, don't wait for others, and don't let yourself leave regrets and regrets.
You don't have to consume yourself internally because of some gains and losses, successes and failures, and you don't have to be depressed because some people don't love you, leave you, and don't contact you.
You don't have to get along with yourself because of a little thing, you have to learn to let go of yourself, let go of some unpleasant things, you should face your life positively and optimistically, live a life with a willing attitude, know how to follow fate, look down on gains and losses, look at success or failure, seize opportunities, don't hesitate, be yourself, no internal friction, no sadness, no pessimism, confident women are always the most beautiful.
Fifth, at all times, you must learn to protect yourself first.
As women, while we love ourselves, we must also learn to see people's hearts clearly, human nature is complex, don't trust others easily, and don't always let yourself suffer.
There are some things that you should strive for, and at the same time, you must learn to pay attention to yourself, because some people may just not see you well, so they want to calculate you, frame you, and even want to take advantage of you and bully you.
So we all have to live a little clearer, strengthen our hearts, improve some skills, and even have some skills that can protect ourselves, so that even if we encounter bad people, we can protect ourselves.
Women, you have to love yourself well, be kind to yourself, don't wronged yourself, don't let yourself always be angry, it's not good to be angry, only people who know how to protect themselves can make themselves happy and happy.
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