Break away, get rid of entanglement, and show the big picture.
The years are quiet, treat yourself first.
There are 80,000 words in the world, and only love words can move people's hearts the most. "Despite a person's brilliance, feelings are difficult to control. God rewards hard work, but love is not part of it.
In love, what is expected is "life and death depend on each other, and promise lasts forever; Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son. However, in the vicissitudes of the world, how many people can fulfill their vows and accompany them for a lifetime.
Too many promises end up being just empty talk. Only by staying sober can we calmly face every emotion and be separated from people at an inappropriate time. Love, like bread, has an expiration date.
If a person starts to distance themselves from you and doesn't reply to messages, swiping and pestering will only make you look pathetic. Real women do these three things.
02.Dialogue does not have to be silent, openness and honesty is the best goodbye Many people have had such an experience, and the person who used to have a hot conversation suddenly became silent; The dialog box, which used to light up at any time, suddenly fell silent.
At this time, many people will choose to wait silently and the cold war, constantly looking for various clues in speculation and speculation, and then constantly overturning. The rules of the rivers and lakes are set for the rivers and lakes, and you are the master of this feeling, you are the rules.
The most feared thing in the relationship is not that there is no result, but that there is no goodbye. If you have sincerely given and looked forward to it with your heart in this relationship, then you are worth asking for an explanation.
As the line in the movie "After the End" said: "Every time you say goodbye, you have to work harder; One more word, probably the last one; Take one more look, maybe the last one. ”
If you haven't heard from the other party for a long time, you might as well communicate positively, understand the other party's true thoughts, and get that answer. The best decency is to respond positively, not to dodge and escape.
02 Completely let go Turning around with arrogance is like a journey, with ups and downs, sorrows and joys. Sometimes, we meet people at a certain intersection who may bring us some joy or pain, but in any case, they are all passers-by in our lives.
If we knock on the door countless times and it keeps it closed, then we need to know how to let go. Some people, they may have already made a decision, they don't need us anymore and they don't want to communicate with us.
In this case, we should no longer pester them, and we should no longer try to change them. Because, only those who really want to give up on you will completely disappear and completely cut off contact.
In the face of such people, we should no longer waste time and energy on them, we should turn around arrogantly and give up completely. In this way, we can better focus on our lives and better cherish our friends and family.
Life is not easy, you have to learn to give up. Because, mountain birds and fish have different paths, and the mountains and rivers will never meet each other from now on.
03 Improve yourself and shine brightly There is such a line in the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much": "If he disappears suddenly, don't spend a lot of energy solving the mystery of his disappearance." ”
You can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, nor can you recall a heart that wants to leave. Many times, those who disappear silently are strangers here, and goodbye is goodbye.
Some people show up just to teach you a lesson and then turn away. You can be sad and sad for a while, but you can't give up on yourself. No matter how the world changes, the only one who can always accompany us is ourselves.
When the relationship fades, say goodbye to the past decisively, stride forward, and become a better version of yourself. Your sunshine will let him know that I stopped because I wanted to stay for you, not because I couldn't.
In the face of his silent farewell, you can still walk proudly and freely, and your every step is solid and powerful, deafening. As Yishu said: "The most important thing to be a man is to look good." ”
A transparent person will always know how to be himself and please himself, rather than wronging himself to fulfill others. If you see the waves of the sea, you won't care about the ripples in the pond.
When you become good enough, you will find that the person who doesn't even dare to say goodbye is not worth nostalgia at all. In the end, Haruki Murakami once said, "I moved the idea of leaving you."
It's not because you're bad, it's not because I don't love you anymore, it's because your attitude makes me feel like there's no shortage of me in your world. "The maintenance of love and marriage is never about entanglement and accommodation, but about caring for each other.
For a person who does not contact you, don't be sad and cry, let alone keep pestering and bothering, the forced relationship is destined not to last long. As the saying goes: "The past is gone, just a prologue." ”
Life is short, the mountains and rivers are a journey, please pack up your mood, live up to the rest of your life, do not wronged yourself, let life be full of sunshine, and let yourself shine. If there is no one in the darkness to give us light, take the lamp yourself.
Hopefully, all you meet are good people and the rest of your life will be filled with happiness. End Author: Time on the Clouds. Multi-platform contract author, non-professional psychological counselor, has 100,000+ articles, only reads paper books, and only loves square words Aquarius.
The years are long, and I am willing to grow with you. Time is long, let read ** all.