There is an unspoken rule in interpersonal interactions, that is, to bully the weak and fear the hard. People who are always patient and compromise are the most likely to be looked down upon! Know how to protect yourself, so that others don't dare to bully you casually. The better and more active you are to a person, the less you will be valued; The lower your posture, the more you cater to others, and the more humble your life becomes; The better your temper, the easier you are to talk, and the more you are bullied. Don't be that soft persimmonThe more honest and kind you are, the more you will stimulate the evil of human nature. At any time and in any situation, you must first respect your own needs, dare to refuse, and do not please anyone. 01 Gentle but not easy to mess withEveryone has their own ideas and should be respected. But if you speak too kindly, like a good old man,Others will unconsciously not pay attention to what you say。Not being easy to mess with doesn't mean being fierce, it's about being appropriately aggressive. It is easier for people to respect a person who can lose his temper than to respect a good-natured person. It's not about being a person who has teeth and claws, is full of thorns, and wants to avoid others when they see it. People who know how to protect themselves sometimes have to behave appropriately and not be easy to mess with, so that others will not dare to bully you casually. People with edges and corners on their bodies can walk more smoothly and freely in the world. "Others don't take you seriously, in the final analysis, it all starts with you not taking yourself seriously. "To make yourself strong, you can't stress too easily:Compromise and concession, otherwise you will only make your living space smaller and smaller. You have to be self-principled and don't try to please others. Let others respect your personal ideas to a certain extent in life. Instead of ignoring you and not taking your thoughts seriously at all. 
02 Don't be a good personWhy do people with high emotional intelligence never give advice easily? Because one doesn't have to show everything you know. There's no need to say everything ***People don't like that they have someone around them who knows more than they do, and that annoys them. No matter how correct you are, you can't change these people, and unless they want to learn on their own, there's nothing they can do. You either keep your mouth shut or use their language. Don't feel sorry for someone else's mistakes, and don't give an opinion. In fact, what you think of as a help is a disturbance to others. What can move people's hearts is not the truth, but the tempering of the experience。Don't try to solve other people's life problems, let alone accompany other people's bad lives. Let go of the plot of helping others and respect the fate of others. Everyone who comes into this world also has their own homework. It's someone else's business that others don't do well enough, and they will naturally be punished accordingly, and it has nothing to do with us. 03 Focus on self-growthAfter a few minutes of swiping your phone, you start working, but the more you swipe, the more you can't do something? Doing things, walking, eating in a constant hurry, unable to sit down at all? Really powerful people are never in a hurry, have concentration, and have their own rhythm, not easily influenced by the outside world and others. Not impetuous, down-to-earth, step by step, solid forward. Stay away from all unhealthy things, whether it's food, people, things or the environment; Take advantage of your free time to start frantically absorbing all kinds of beneficial knowledge that you are interested in in the outside world; Don't pay attention to anyone's dynamics, don't speculate on anyone's thoughts, don't imagine something that doesn't happen, be simple, be blunt, slow down. People's attention span is limited, and if you don't pay too much attention to the outside world, you will find that the unconscious comparison is reduced, and the anxiety and anxiety are also relieved a lot. Only by growing inwards can it bloom outward。When you become more and more focused on yourself and keep improving, you will become more and more sober. In a year or two, you will climb to a new level, you will say goodbye to many people, and you will figure out many things in an instant. What can really support you isRich knowledge reserves, sufficient economic foundation, continuous emotional stability, controllable pace of life, and the invincible self。Author: Yan Jiu, 99 years of Dachang naked resignation in the text, working life, healthy life, make money and save money, pay attention to me, grow together!
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