Divorce is a deep soul rift, a process of reshuffling life. After the divorce, women still choose to live with their ex-husbands, some because of the retention of past feelings, but more because of the helplessness of life.
1) The child's bond and consideration of family responsibilities. Women who have children, the choice after divorce, are more affected by the impact on children and the complex pressure of facing family responsibilities Mrs. Yang has a daughter who is in high school. Although she and her husband have broken down their relationship and their marriage has come to an end. However, in the face of the pressure of her child's learning in school and the critical period of determining the future direction of her child who is about to take the college entrance examination, she knows the importance of support and care for her child, and in order to maintain a stable growth environment for her child, she has to re-examine the impact of divorce on the whole family, so she chooses to temporarily conceal the fact of divorce and maintain the integrity of the family. Every night, she tries to sit with her husband and children affectionately, accompany and tutor the children's studies, and discuss the children's studies and future plans. On weekends, she and her husband often participate in children's on-campus and off-campus interest activities to ensure that her daughter feels the warmth and support of the family and helps her better cope with the pressure of the college entrance examination. This choice highlights the woman's sense of responsibility as a mother in front of the family.
2) Wandering with nowhere to go, Mrs. Dong after the divorce faced the problem that the property could not be divided immediately. The division of joint property becomes complicated and difficult due to the fact that the house is not good to sell. This situation forced her to be unable to have her own independent home immediately after the divorce and had to continue to share the living space with her ex-husband. This choice is not her infatuation with her past feelings, but a reality that cannot be avoided and get rid of the dilemma, in the context of the broken family, but also in this broken relationship with her ex-husband who is like a stranger, she feels deeply helpless and helpless for this 3) economic pressure and helplessness After Ms. Song was abandoned by her husband and divorced, because she could not afford the rent and daily living expenses alone, she did not have enough financial ability to support herself, in order to maintain basic living needs, had to swallow her anger and choose to continue living with her ex-husband. This is a helpless choice in the financial dilemma, which makes people feel the heavy burden of economic conditions on women's survival.
It can be seen that women must focus on improving their vocational skills or pursuing a higher level of education, consciously pursue economic independence, cultivate the ability to start their own businesses and careers, improve their financial management skills and develop the habit of budgeting, so that they can better cope with the economic pressure and challenges brought by sudden changes in life, so that they can have a stable and independent life.