The bond between siblings is the most intimate in the world, they have similar genetic sequences and live in similar environments.
However, a similar starting point does not mean that the end point is the same. The reality is that there are huge differences between siblings.
This shows that even growing up in the same family environment does not limit the development of an individual. Ultimately, your fate is in your own hands.
Often, the one with the best fate among the siblings, does exist. This is not superstition, but fact.
Slow temperament
There is a good saying: "Slow work makes fine work". The older generation often said that people with slow temperaments are lucky.
The reason why these words have survived to this day is by no means a simple superstition.
People who are slow are more calm and calm than those who are impatient.
Many people like the kind of person who has a cool temperament and does things neatly. They seem to be able to solve problems quickly, and they are naturally loved by people.
But sometimes, being too impatient, acting blindly, and may rush into action without careful consideration in advance.
Although it seems to be very efficient on the surface, in fact, it can be a detour due to blind action and suffer a big loss.
Therefore, sometimes impatience is not a good thing.
Be slower, think before acting, plan before acting, in order to get twice the result with half the effort, avoid detours, and life will be smooth sailing.
People who are confident and strong and believe that they will succeed
People who are confident and strong believe that they will succeed, and they can firmly believe in their abilities and values no matter what difficulties and challenges they encounter.
They do not waver in their beliefs because of doubts or criticisms from others, but face difficulties positively and strive to find solutions to problems.
Their beliefs not only stimulate their inner motivation, but also enable them to face life's challenges more calmly.
My friend's brother has shown very strong self-confidence and perseverance since he was a child.
When he was in high school, he took a year off due to illness, but instead of giving up on himself, he took the opportunity to teach himself various knowledge.
In the end, he not only succeeded, but also achieved excellent results after resuming school and was admitted to a prestigious university.
It is precisely because of his self-confidence and strength that he was able to keep moving forward in the face of adversity, and finally achieved success and changed the direction of his life.
Unruly and maverick
Siblings, although they share the same family background, have very different personalities.
Some people are mild-mannered and prefer to follow traditional rules, while others are unruly by nature.
These rebellious people are never willing to be bound by established rules and traditions. They have their own boundaries of thinking and action, and being maverick is not reckless, but only pursuing the truth and ideals in their hearts.
They dare to challenge authority, are not willing to be mediocre, and would rather choose to take risks to explore the unknown, rather than easily compromise with the status quo and ** of society.
Such a person dares to try new things, has the courage to face failures and challenges, and achieves his inner goals because of perseverance.
Finally
In fact, many of the stresses in our lives are self-inflicted.
If we can maintain a cautious and non-arrogant attitude in dealing with things and people, our lives will also get better and better, and we will become those who are called "good lives".