Author |Ink Shadow Dust Heart Photography |Photo.com Editor |Zimo Meiwen.
There are many problems in life, all of which arise because of poor communication, one does not ask, one does not say, and after a long time, there will be estrangement.
From having nothing to say, to having nothing to say, is a kind of spiritual alienation.
Between people, they can be intimate or strange;
It can be nothing to say, or it can be relatively silent.
In the last second, maybe they had a good conversation;
In the next second, it is possible to go their separate ways.
Communication between people is really important, good communication can get twice the result with half the effort, can deepen understanding, can coordinate and solve problems, and can achieve spiritual resonance.
Don't always stand in your own perspective, to look at others, to evaluate others, without the suffering of others, do not judge others, I think, just our own subjective consciousness, can not represent the ideas of others.
Communication, to be at the same frequency, to speak well, to accurately express one's wishes, but also to be able to listen to the opinions of others.
Roaring, apart from venting one's emotions, doesn't actually solve anything.
Communication, not a one-way confiding, but a two-way rush, in addition to the verbal you come and go, but also know how to listen to the voice of others, express clearly, is a kind of ability;
Being good at listening is a kind of cultivation.