Today, I brushed up on the suicide note of a female college student who said that she was sexually harassed by the head of the department, and simply talked about the matter of Xi'an ** College, which can be searched on Weibo**, the girl was insulted by the school leaders for a long time, suffered from depression, and had to take a year off from school, went to school again, and was continuously xx, and the girl finally hanged herself in a rental house ......
Many big Vs are talking about this, but unfortunately it's all wrong and has no meaning.
My brother briefly analyzes this kind of thing.
The girl would rather commit suicide than ask her parents for help, which is the same nature as the previous student loan, preferring a naked loan, and would rather owe hundreds of thousands of dollars in interest than find her parents.
The reason is simple:
1.Parents are weak and cannot help their children.
2.Children don't trust their parents, and not only is it not good to find their parents, but they may also be scolded in vain.
3.The students have been brushing the questions for more than ten years, and they have been completely isolated from childhood to adulthood, resulting in students who are generally shallow and have never seen the world.
4.In the eyes of weak parents, academic qualifications are very important, so heavy that the father dies and has to hide the children who are about to take the college entrance examination (note: the news of the year), the children have been exposed to it since childhood, and they regard their studies as bigger than the sky, and they are willing to do anything for a graduation certificate.
5.Obey your parents at home, obey your teachers at school, and weak parents teach your weak children to dare to resist, so you can only obey obediently.
In the end, my brother gave two plans.
When girls encounter this kind of scum in the future, they directly apply the following 16 words: want to catch the past, keep the evidence, lead but not provoke, and strive for interests.
At any given time, in any dilemma, consider only one question: What is the worst outcome of this matter?
Not having a diploma, being fired from the company, being ridiculed, being disliked, and being beaten up are actually acceptable.
As long as it's not life-threatening, it's a trivial matter!
Write the name of the enemy on a piece of paper, hang it at the head of the bed, gnash your teeth, fight hard, and finally do the most violent revenge at a small price.
It must be "legal", it is not worth putting yourself in it for the little scum.