**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan 1Inferiority complex.
When the abuser raises his heavy fist, he may be venting his inferiority complex. According to psychologists, abusers usually lack or lack some related abilities, such as lack of self-affirmation, ability to deal with criticism, ability to regulate conflict, and ability to deal with emotions. Under the abuser's majestic appearance, there is a heart that is not strong and a chaotic self.
2.Jealousy.
Domestic violence has always been hidden, and psychologists have investigated the jealousy and violent relationship of lovers. About 40% of women who answered "yes" to these two questions were "your partner is very jealous and doesn't want to see you talk to you" and "your partner wants to know who you are with and where you are". There is a high probability that the jealousy will develop into violence.
Jealousy is one of the barometers that shows the depth of love. But excessive jealousy not only hurts both parties physically and mentally, but also destroys the relationship between the two, and eventually leads to a tragedy that leaves major physical and mental scars.
3.Stress overload mentality.
In modern society, competition is becoming increasingly fierce, and men will encounter problems such as unemployment, high work pressure, and various frustrations, especially for high-level intellectuals, who are mostly middle-level leaders or technical backbones in the company, and face greater pressure. In order to keep their jobs or maintain their image, they will suppress their emotions in the company, and according to the deep psychology of men, men who have suffered "frustration" outside the home tend to transfer anger and aggression to their wives, and are prone to violence towards their family members.
4.Too machismo.
The feudal idea of male superiority and inferiority of women is still deeply rooted in the minds of some people, and most of them are still influenced by the concept of family education, and regard their wives as private property, believing that "the horses bought by the married daughter-in-law can be ridden and beaten by me", and the wives should take care of everything for themselves. Especially in some economically and culturally underdeveloped areas, men will punch and kick their wives if they are not satisfied.
5.Sexual Disorder Psychology.
Psychologists believe that men with sexual disorders have low self-esteem in front of women. However, men's self-esteem makes them unable to accept the reality correctly, and instead treats women with a cold attitude, resulting in women's depression and depression, and the phenomenon of cold violence in the family.
6.Violent genetic psychology.
Some men grew up in a violent environment in their childhood, and the violent behavior they were exposed to left a deep impression on their minds, believing that fists and sticks were the fastest and best way to solve family problems, and when they became adults, they would unconsciously deal with family problems in this way. According to some sources, 30% of domestic violence is passed on from generation to generation, and some say that domestic perpetrators often come from violent families. Some children hated their fathers for beating their mothers when they were children, and swore that they would never beat their wives in the future. Because he learned bad coping styles from his father.
7.Lack of self-confidence.
Some men have low self-confidence and cannot accept that their spouse is more successful than themselves in their careers, and always deliberately belittle the other person's accomplishments, or simply fix their wives behind closed doors in order to gain psychological balance. Studies have found that husbands who are often violent tend to have less education and occupations in their work than their wives. As a result, women who are more culturally accomplished and professionally accomplished than their husbands tend to be more harmed to a higher degree.