Isolation sometimes doesn't make people vulnerable, but it can shape a stronger spiritual core. The truly strong are those who find themselves in reason, thought, principle, and perseverance. Through their accumulated experience and insights, they gradually move towards independence and control of their own lives. Such a person is not afraid of isolation, and even dares to isolate everyone, just to follow the inner voice and firmly walk on the current path.
Where does the pain of life come from? One of them replied, "Everyone is attacked by two arrows: the first arrow is shot at you from the outside, and the second arrow is shot at you by yourself." ”
Isolation may be the arrow, whether it is aimed at others or ourselves, we should seize the initiative. In this way, we can grasp the rudder of life, accumulate more strength, and live every moment well.
Don't beg to be gregariousThe world is like a kaleidoscope in which everyone blooms their own colors. The reason why we have difficulty waking others up is not only because they are intoxicated with their own dreams, but also because everyone has their own trajectory in life. Therefore, we do not need to please anyone, but learn to be self-reliant and take control of our own destiny.
A truly transparent person who knows how to let go of unnecessary worries and focus on self-growth. They are not afraid of isolation, and they can even find inner peace in it. Because in this complex world, people do not have the same emotions with each other.
Lu Xun also wrote: "There are people downstairs who are sick, but there are laughter and laughter next door; People upstairs are partying, and people downstairs are crying. The women on the boat wept for their mothers, but the men on the shore laughed as usual. The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy. ”
Indeed, mature people will be more restrained and rational, they will not easily meddle in other people's affairs, and they will not deliberately please anyone. They understand that only by focusing on themselves and improving their inner cultivation can they live transparently, independently, and strongly.
We need to dare to isolate others, or be fearless in the face of isolation. Because in this colorful world, everyone is an individual, and we only have to live for ourselves.
Remain independent and complete
Many people, in the shadow of fear of being left behind and isolated, are in constant fear that they will be forgotten in the crowd. They are walking on thin ice, constantly exerting invisible pressure on themselves, and their hearts are becoming more and more sensitive and fragile. However, life is like a marathon, and everyone is a unique runner with their own pace and pace.
We should understand that differences between people are natural, and only with the confidence and courage not to be afraid of being isolated can we firmly follow our own path. Even if you are alone, take every step bravely. In this way, we can truly be ourselves and live our true selves. With the precipitation of time, our life will become more and more full and calm.
Mai Jia once wrote in "The Sea of Life": "The height of life is not how many things you can see, but how many things you look down on." ”The manifestation of human maturity is to see through and not to say itWhen we see through some people and things, we need to learn to let go and let go. In this way, we can climb to a higher peak in life and make each day peaceful and fulfilling.
Let us have the courage not to fear isolation. Even if you are alone, you must persevere to the end and bloom the light of life. Because when we are strong in our hearts, we will become the king of loneliness and move towards a better future with our own strength. At that time, we even dared to isolate others and live freely.
Dare to isolate others
Russell once said, "Only when roses and jasmine dance together, the world is wonderful." "However,People must first enrich themselves, be independent and strong, and then they can live in harmony with others and share prosperity. If your own ability is insufficient and weak, even if you are surrounded by connections on the surface, you will not be able to provide actual value. Because of this, we need to be self-reliant and self-reliant, go through the tempering of spring, summer, autumn and winter, and survive the ups and downs.
The path of life is not isolated in front of people to be sad and disappointed, that is, independent of people and silently forging ahead. In this way, we will be able to live our true selves with confidence and self-confidence. Only in this way can we keep moving forward and finally successfully land on the shore.