01Treat good friends.
We will meet many people in this life, we will become friends with different people, and we will also have different relationships with different people. We make a lot of friends, but there are only a few friends with whom we can get along.
We also have to deal with our good friends accordingly.
Good friends are just like our families, we must treat each other sincerely, and don't always blind our hearts with interests.
A lot of times good friends are important to us. For example, when we want to talk to someone, we don't dare to communicate with strangers, and we are afraid that our relatives will worry.
Therefore, friends who have a good relationship with us can become the object of our confiding.
And after becoming good friends with others, we should not be afraid to trouble others, so we dare not talk to them.
We need to know that we are also important to them, and they will find ways to help us when we have problems.
And when your best friend is in trouble, do you step up too?
So it's all the same thing, when others are in trouble, we help, and in the process of helping, we can also understand each other better.
02Treat your family.
In fact, when it comes to family members, we don't think too much about it a lot of the time.
Because family is not something we choose, but we are born with an inseparable bond.
But many times, the way we get along with our families is inappropriate.
On the part of our children, sometimes we are not filial, because there is always a gap between our parents and us.
The older we get, the more reluctant we find to tell our parents what is on our minds.
Because a lot of times they don't understand us, and the answers we want are not to give us all kinds of reasoning.
So the distance between us and our parents is getting farther and farther away.
From the perspective of parents, in fact, many parents do not understand the inner world of their children, and they always force their children to do certain things in their own way of thinking.
This is not the right way, even our children, we should give them enough personal space.
But as parents and as children, we need to keep growing.
We are not born to take on such a role, and in the process of taking on this role, we will slowly adapt to such a role.
But family members need to understand each other, and they also need to communicate with each other, so as not to let the conflict get deeper and deeper.
03 Treat your partner.
Getting along with a partner has always been a headache for us, because partners can neither keep a distance like friends nor be close like family.
When we get along with our significant other, we must know that we can't be too indifferent to each other, and we can't fully show ourselves to each other.
If we are too indifferent, the other party will not feel the love in us, and the other party may leave us at any time.
But if you show yourself unreservedly to the other party, it may not be the best choice.
Because the other person doesn't fully understand us, we show ourselves completely, and it's likely that our image is not what the other person imagined.
Therefore, we should also be as sincere as possible with our partners, but we must also be reserved and have our own space.
We can't completely spend our time and energy on our love, we should pay more attention to our inner world.
A good relationship requires each other to continue to grow.
The companionship of our partner is also important to us, we should not take it for granted, we should be grateful to them.
And in a relationship, it is not possible for one party to give completely, and the other party only needs to enjoy it.
A good relationship requires continuous dedication from both parties before you can get the results you want.
04Treat colleagues.
In the workplace, we need to learn to deal with our colleagues. In fact, in the workplace, we will meet all kinds of people and deal with all kinds of relationships, so we need to train ourselves slowly.
We need to know that the workplace is a competitive relationship, we should not be too simple, and we must be wary of others.
We should not completely believe what others say, and it is safe for us to remain skeptical.
And we don't always think that we can make real friends in the workplace, in fact, this probability is very small.
When we grow up, we make friends with a purpose, and we look at each other to see if there is something we are looking for. So we should not be too simple, we must be cautious in what we say, and we must be careful in what we do.
Leave enough room for yourself to do things, and also save enough face for others.
Don't always be self-centered, but don't be completely dismissive of other people's feelings. So there are a lot of truths to learn in this life, and we need to work hard to explore them slowly.