From the moment you are born, what bowl you serve, what you eat, what you go through, and who you marry when you marry are all fixed numbers.
Don't embarrass yourself too much, just go with the flow.
You read the script of life as early as heaven, and the reason why you chose this script is because there is something in this life that you think is worthwhile.
A person's wealth is the realization of his own good fortune.
Man's good fortune comes from three parts:
The first part is the good fortune you have accumulated in this life, which is the merit you have accumulated in the first half of your life.
The second part is the good fortune that you have accumulated in your previous life, which is the merit you have created in your previous life.
The third part is the good fortune accumulated by one's ancestors, and the good fortune accumulated by one generation can be passed down to three generations.
Our wealth is a combination of the above three blessings.
Why do some people have mediocre qualifications but can make a fortune? That's because the blessings of the last two parts are too great, so they have been living under the protection of blessings.
Whether it is the providence in the dark, or the cause and effect of what you do, this is the "certainty" of human beings.
What is a "definite number"? It's what we often call "immutable" things.
And this kind of immutable thing is often regular and repeated.
Just like the spring, summer, autumn and winter of the year, people can only obey it, but cannot change it, and walk according to the way and the rules of all things.
This is a natural certainty. Just like the rising and setting of the sun and the setting of the day and night, and the stars shifting, they will always happen, just like people eat three meals a day.
Actually, this is a fixed number of rules.
Life is a process of "one link after another".
Some people believe that it is precisely because of the combination of chance and necessity that our life is constituted.
All accidents will be accompanied by necessity. It's like if you were born into this family, and he was born in that family, the fate of that person is already different.
A young man originally wanted to be admitted to the university in Beijing, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, but he ended up in a second-tier city.
Who knows, he met someone he liked, so he stayed in that city for the rest of his life.
A young man originally wanted to find a job in sales, but who knew that he had a chance to engage in the Internet.
In the end, he has done a great job in the Internet field, made a lot of money, and gained his own achievements and life.
Everything we "think" will most likely not come true.
You must know that backfire is the norm, and everything goes well is the abnormal state.
The reason why life is interesting is that we don't know how fate is arranged. Perhaps, you have lost hope now, but fate has given you hope in the next moment.
This is something you can't predict.
I like this sentence very much, in the chessboard of life, you never know how the opponent of fate will play.
Therefore, you can only take it step by step, and move towards your own future in unexpected and uneasy situations.
Slowly, when we understand the destiny of heaven and know our talents, we will be content with the present, no longer live in vain, what bowls to serve, what to eat, and do the present things well, then we will have a future.
Finding your place early is the best practice.
Pick up the bowl and eat a delicious meal to make every day wonderful and fulfilling.
Because this world is waiting for your unique flash, the continuation of the beautiful story that belongs only to you.
Because of the effort, the result follows the fate.
A wise man must understand the principle of cause and harmony.
This is the law of nature, and everything you are looking for must be under the intricate factors that cause and effect are combined to everything before it manifests naturally.
If you can be at ease with the results, there is no good or bad judgment.
Then you can go into another dimension: you can't take away the result of anything, and what you really grow and gain is on the way to the result.
There is a lot of wisdom in life, but it is actually very simple.
Because of hard work, it is a kind of dedication without regrets, in exchange for a valuable life experience, in the experience of growth and sublimation to find oneself.
It is a kind of open-minded and open-minded attitude, which not only lets go of the pain of obsession with gains and losses, but also encounters the fate of "yin and yang".