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In the complex stage of life, women play multiple roles, not only as guardians of the family, but also as participants in society.
Some women have been mediocre all their lives, while others are able to balance their family and career. The difference is not in their IQ, but in their life trade-offs.
A woman with real brains closes 3 doors all her life, and the more she closes, the better her life!
Close the door to complaining
Complaining is a common way of emotional catharsis in life. However, women with real brains rarely complain. Because they know that complaining will only lead them into a whirlpool of negative emotions and cannot extricate themselves.
They understand that complaining won't solve the problem, it will only make it more complicated. Therefore, they choose to close the door of complaining and face the challenges and difficulties in life with a positive attitude.
Closing the door to complaining means learning to self-reflect and grow.
When faced with a problem, they will calmly analyze the cause and find a solution. They believe that every difficulty is an opportunity for growth, and every setback is a process of exercising their will.
In the face of setbacks, they will not give up easily, but will strengthen their beliefs and move forward bravely.
When you don't waste your energy complaining, you've solved half of the problem.
: Close the door to dependencies
There is such a passage in "Sometimes a Woman": "All my life I longed to be hidden, properly placed, and carefully preserved." Save me from suffering, from being frightened, from being displaced, from having no branches to rely on. ”
This passage seems beautiful and gentle, but in fact women with real brains will not like it, because they will not be willing to rely on a man for their whole lives.
Dependence is a psychological constraint that deprives a person of the ability to think and act independently.
Women with real brains know how to close the door of dependence, they understand that relying on others cannot make them truly grow, and only by being independent can they be invincible in life.
Self-reliant women are the most attractive, they will develop their independent thinking skills in life, and learn to solve problems independently.
In this world, you are the only comrade who will never betray you, and it is better to believe in yourself than to rely on others.
Believe in your own ability, believe in your own persistence, and believe that you can face all the ups and downs in life.
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Comparison is an instinct in human nature, but excessive comparison becomes comparison, which often makes people fall into anxiety and loss.
Women with real brains never compare, they understand that life is not a race, and everyone has their own rhythm and trajectory.
They will not blindly pursue the success and happiness of others, but will cherish what they have and strive to pursue their dreams and goals.
Everyone has their own glamorous and beautiful, and they also have their own mess. The purpose of our life is not to live better than others, but to find our own rhythm and realize our own value.
A woman with a brain learns to appreciate what makes her unique and cherishes her worth. They will focus on their own growth and progress, and they will be proud of each of their small achievements.
If you have to compare yourself with others to prove your worth, it can only show the lack and emptiness of this woman's heart.
These doors, in fact, are the best in our lives, when you can take the initiative to close these doors in life, you have surpassed the vast majority of people.
A woman's ability and value do not need to be recognized by others, a woman with real brains will plan her life well, close the door of those **, guard the road under her feet, and walk out of her own different wonderful life.
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