Xi Mengyao and He Youjun's real display in "Love's Study Trip" participated some time ago has frequently appeared on the hot search and has become the focus of everyone's attention.
The couple was not favored by everyone at first, but as time passed, the sweet interaction between them completely reversed the previous negative impression.
In the program "Love's Study Trip", the sincere emotions they showed made many viewers completely change Xi Mengyao's early label of "longing for a wealthy family", and people were amazed by her determination to truly marry for love.
However, there are so many women who are eager to be accompanied by love, how can Xi Mengyao enjoy such blessings?
Let's take a closer look and find that she has deep and precise insights into love and marriage. These views of hers are worth pondering for everyone who pursues a happy marriage.
"You can't talk about winning or losing in marriage, don't have a sense of winning or losing".
During the journey of marriage, the relationship between many couples is often misunderstood as a competition, in which winning or losing becomes the measure of the quality of the relationship. However, true marriages are far from that.
In this most intimate human relationship, having a sense of victory and defeat not only does not help solve the problem, but sows the seeds of estrangement in the depths of each other's hearts. In marriage, you can't win or lose, don't have the heart of winning or losing, this is the cornerstone of maintaining a healthy marital relationship.
Marriage is a partnership based on mutual respect and understanding, not on rivalry. When couples begin to think about who is right and who is wrong, the psychology of winning and losing begins to spread, and this mentality can gradually erode trust and respect for each other, leading to the breakdown of the relationship.
On the contrary, when we let go of winning and losing, and face every dispute with equality and understanding, we can not only find a solution to the problem, but also deepen our relationship with each other.
Communication is the key to resolving conflicts in marriage, and the sense of victory is the obstacle to communication. Conversations with a sense of victory and defeat are often conducted to prove one's point of view, rather than to truly understand the other person.
This style of communication will only lead to more misunderstandings and disagreements. We should learn to listen and truly understand each other's needs and feelings in order to build a more harmonious marital relationship.
"Lovers need to be cared for".
The first step to love is understanding and acceptance. Everyone has their own personality, habits, and past, and true love means accepting the whole of the other person, including their strengths and weaknesses.
This acceptance is based on deep understanding, which means that we need to listen, observe, and feel each other's inner world with our hearts in order to better understand their needs and expectations.
Attentive care is also reflected in the attention and support for the other party. It's not just about helping someone when they need it, it's about showing care in the small details of everyday life.
For example, paying attention to the other person's preferences, commemorating important dates, and giving comfort and encouragement to the other person when they are stressed are all concrete manifestations of love.
Engagement and trustFinally, careful care also needs to be built on firm covenant and trust. This means that both parties are committed to respecting and being loyal to each other in all circumstances, and this trust is based on a deep love for each other and a strong belief in the future of living together.
"More empathy, more communication".
Empathy, in short, is trying to understand their feelings, needs, and thoughts from the other person's point of view.
In a marital relationship, this means that when a partner expresses a dissatisfaction, concern, or desire, we should first try to understand the reasons behind it, rather than immediately refute or justify it.
In this way, we not only understand our partner more deeply, but also find common ground in disputes, thus reducing misunderstandings and conflicts.
Effective communication is an indispensable element in a relationship, especially in marriage. It is not only the exchange of words, but also the process of sharing and understanding emotions.
In this process, it is important to avoid using accusatory language and instead use "i" statements to describe feelings and needs from your own perspective, which will reduce the defensive response of the other person and promote deeper understanding and intimacy.
In this impetuous era, sincere emotions are more and more precious. If you are lucky enough to meet the person you like, please be sure to cherish and care for this feeling. In a long-term relationship, understanding and communication, tolerance and care will be the key to long-term love