No matter what you do, you have to work hard. Don't care what others say, and don't take your parents too seriously whether they support you or not.
After experiencing some turning points of my own, I realized that many things still have to be decided by myself. After making a decision, the subsequent development of things is all borne by yourself, and the consequences of the advice given by others before have nothing to do with others.
Therefore, when a person becomes an adult, the character that must be formed is to be independent and assertive, sometimes people will inevitably make difficulties and be entangled, but in many voices, they must be able to hear their own voice. Don't be incited by someone to change your mind with a word.
Walking on the road of life, it is inevitable to be confused, and there will be times when the brain is not bright, but as long as you have confidence in yourself and believe in yourself without hesitation, even if there is no one behind you to support you, even if it is just a person struggling outside, you must give yourself enough confidence, firmly give your back, be your own backer, and move forward boldly with full strength.
When you are frustrated, when you are sleepy, when you are at a loss, you must maintain a normal rhythm of life, you have to eat when you should eat, you have to sleep seriously, if you can't sleep, let yourself read more books, and if you can't eat, let yourself drink some porridge, sad times are inevitable.
The ups and downs of life are the way a person should go, and plainness is the main tone of life. Although people should have big ambitions. If you don't please, you should be pragmatic in front of you. Don't rush things, and don't always focus on small gains and losses.
You don't have to listen carefully to what others say, don't think about what you don't listen to, you can listen to it if it's not good, laugh it off if it's useless, listen to it humbly if you are a little good at yourself, even if you listen to it a little, it may also change the direction of some things, such as the temper of life, such as the details of doing things.
The old people like to be good teachers, for the elders who like to chatter, just listen carefully to each other's speeches, people will have the day when they are old, and it will not be wrong to save a little more kindness.
A person may not have the ability to do good deeds, but at least he must maintain a good heart, whether he has good fortune or not, and he is a relatively friendly explanation of his own person. When encountering difficulties, the accumulated yin virtue will flow back to oneself, and turning danger into relief is the best manifestation of good fortune.
If you are young and still working hard outside, but you don't have a goal, you are doing it every day"It didn't work"At this time, don't think too long and too far, first do the things at hand well, make yourself reliable, slowly, some goals will appear naturally, and then in the next stage, you will find the motivation to continue to work hard. For example, some people will suddenly leave the stable environment to study abroad, and some people will end the position that others envy to do something that seems unbelievable......
Regardless of whether the present is a good day, at the beginning of the new year, it is still necessary to maintain positive thoughts, think seriously about yourself, and live freely and decisively. Now that you've made some decisions, don't look back, and don't regret it.
Many things and people's mistakes are faults, and they are not obsessed. Don't have illusions, focus on developing yourself.