The toxic friendship between junior high school students has emerged, and parents should pay attention to it!
Toxic friendships"Parents don't care about it among middle school students, but this kind of friendship is much greater than that of adolescence"Danger"
Junior high school is a very sensitive stage, and although primary school students have faded away from childishness and naivety, they are still not as mature and stable as secondary school students should be. This period is the early stage of adolescent development, and it is also a period of relative rebellion.
Parents should not only have good physical fitness for their children, but also have a good academic attitude and a mentality of continuous improvement. Especially after the announcement of the Hong Kong Joint Senior Secondary School Entrance Examination, many parents are worried about whether their children can be admitted to the high school of their choice. Therefore, parents tend to focus all their energy on the development of their children.
In primary school, parents try to avoid things like falling in love as much as possible so that they can focus on their studies. However, among elementary school students, in addition to puppy love, there is also a detrimental effect on academic and personality development"Toxic friendships"。
In school, I spend the longest time with my classmates, much more than my parents and teachers. Possess.
One or two friends are the greatest happiness in life. A good relationship with a mentor is good for their healthy development, while being friends with bad people is also bad for their healthy development.
In this way, we have formed a system called"Toxic friendships"relationship. Junior high school students in their formative stages should be extra careful and avoid such interactions as much as possible.
First of all, some students are indifferent to their studies, have fun all day long, and have no respect for teachers. It takes a lot of effort to form a good study habit, but it takes a moment to form a bad habit. When parents find out that this is the case for their children, they must stop it and do not take it lightly.
Secondly, there is also a kind of classmate, although he seems to be very familiar with you, but he chews the root of his tongue behind his back. On the Internet, people refer to this situation as this"Ghost friends"。Avoiding this type of friend is beneficial for their growth.
Ultimately, there is such a type of friend who is a role model for others. In the name of their friends, they often unabashedly imitate the attire of their classmates. This is detrimental to their outlook on life, values, values, etc. When you come across something like this"Toxic friendships", be sure to stay away from it.
When parents are surrounded by this"Toxic friendships"What can they do? In primary school, parents are concerned not only about their academic performance, but also about whether they are able to make good friends. In conclusion, it is a good thing to have a good partner, and it is not good to be with a bad partner. It takes some time for a person to develop a good study and action, but it is easy to develop a bad habit.
So parents are also afraid that their children will go down the wrong path. Once such a "bad friend" appears around their children, parents should immediately guide them and tell them what to do right.
When junior high school students reach adolescence, they generally have some feelings of resistance, and when parents educate them, they should grasp the balance and do not attach too much importance to the authority of their parents, otherwise it will cause them to resist, and in the end it will have the opposite effect.
Secondly, parents should give positive recognition to their children's performance, so as to play a positive role in the mental health growth of their children. And work with your classmates to learn what is right. In the learning process, parents have an attitude towards themselves "equally", so that they can better listen to their parents' views and better guide and educate their children.
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