A cheating man will regret it, but the point of regret is not necessarily what the wife wants.
Wives hope that the cheating man will regret cheating and regretting the harm to his wife, and the point that the cheating man regrets is that he didn't hide it and was discovered by his wife, how did he find this junior who can make trouble and has great ambitions, and make trouble to this point, or how to marry a woman he doesn't love, and take the risk of cheating?
So will the cheating man regret it, they will really regret it, but they really don't regret cheating, but regretting cheating obviously won't get to this point, which step is the problem to get to this point.
Cheating men are nothing more than that they don't bother when they take advantage, and they will push back if they want to pay something.
Scarlett had dealt with an extramarital affair case before, and the original partner had repeatedly asked Scarlett this question
This is also a problem that many cheating wives will be more concerned about, because wives will think that if a man regrets cheating, he will admit his mistakes and repent, and if a cheating man has guilt for his wife, he will compensate his wife after returning home and live a good life, but the reality is that if a cheating man regrets it, he will not necessarily admit his mistake and know repentance, even if he is a little guilty about his wife, he will not necessarily compensate, and promise not to cheat again in the future.
On the one hand, it is because most cheating men regret that their wives think differently
Just like this original wife who came to ask Scarlett a question, her husband also said that he regretted it, but what her husband regretted even more should be that he didn't hide his marriage, and the cheating man cheated for more than half a year before he was discovered by this original wife.
At the beginning, the cheating man was very careful to hide, not to add the friends of the junior, both of them were cheating when the man was not at home, and used trading software to make an appointment, and then because his wife never found out, the cheating man gradually became bolder.
I didn't want to spend time and energy to hide, and I started chatting with the junior at home, and my wife found out that the cheating man was staring at the phone every day, and she became suspicious, so she naturally found out that the man was cheating.
So this cheating man regretted it, he felt that if he concealed it according to the previous situation, his wife would not find out.
The cheating man and his wife will not say it directly, regretting that it is not good to hide it, but when he quarreled with Xiao San in front of his wife, he said that Xiao San asked to add friends, Xiao San knew that the cheating man was at home, and even his wife was around, so he still had to send a message to the cheating man, and the cheating man did not reply to Xiao San, and he had to leave his brain, saying that the cheating man did not love her, so the cheating man actually complained about this, that is, he regretted this, he felt that it was not Xiao San who had to do this, he did not let down his vigilance, and he has been hiding well, The wife must not be able to find out about the extramarital affair, he and the mistress can still cheat freely, so the cheating man said that he regretted not cheating, but in fact, what he regretted psychologically was not the cheating itself.
Do cheating men really regret it, their words and deeds will be realized.
Wives can feel it, don't deceive yourself.
On the other hand, it is because there are basic conditions for the compensation of a cheating man to his wife.
The cheating man said that he was sorry for his wife, as long as the wife forgives, he will compensate his wife well in the future, but this compensation must not harm the interests of the cheating man, otherwise the cheating man may turn his face, such as the wife asks the cheating man to be good to her, go out to report the itinerary and the like, the cheating man can accept it, if it is a cheating man, sign some marital property agreements, and then cheat and leave the house, the cheating man will feel that his interests have been violated, and he may not be willing to use this as compensation.
So wives want the cheating man to compensate you, but also to see whether the cheating man is willing or not.
And the cheating man is not really guilty, their compensation time is very short, and he may end the affair, he feels that he has compensated his wife, if the wife is still making trouble because of the cheating, the cheating man feels that the wife is unreasonable, they will still quarrel with the wife justifiably, have conflicts with the wife, and blame the wife, so what guilt, the cheating man just talks, it is not really guilty at all, and the wife can't take it seriously.
The real guilt is that I really feel that I am wrong and have caused harm to my wife.
is willing to compensate his wife according to what he wants and can accept, instead of only considering his own interests, a perfunctory relationship, and then he is not allowed to mention it again.
Whether it is really guilty, the wife needs to have the ability to discern.
In the end, Scarlett wants to say, in fact, it is the same if a cheating man does not regret it, they can cheat, it proves that the essence is very selfish, and they are more concerned about themselves, so even if they regret cheating, they also have some guilt towards their wives, but compensate their wives, make up for their mistakes, and touch the interests of the cheating man, this cheating man will turn his face, and they will still focus on their own interests, so even if the cheating man and his wife say that they regret cheating, they feel guilty about their wives, and it is difficult for wives to take advantage of these. To make a cheating man do what his wife wants, what you can do is rely more on yourself than on these emotions of the cheating man.
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I'm Yin Sijia, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.