We all know that the family and everything is prosperous, but many people don't know that the first paragraph of this sentence is: The father's love is the mother's tranquility, the mother's tranquility is the son's peace, the son's peace is the family's harmony, and the family's harmony is prosperous.
The meaning of this sentence is that the father in a family should be responsible, love his wife and children, and love the family, then the mother will have peace of mind and emotional stability, and the children brought out by such a mother will have a sense of security and will grow up happily, and such a family will be harmonious and beautiful, so such a family will naturally go smoothly and prosper.
Conversely, if a father is selfish, narrow-minded, short-tempered, often self-centered, and never takes into account the feelings and needs of others. I don't know how to love, I don't know how to cherish, I have a strong desire to control, I always want to control other people's thoughts and behaviors, and if I don't obey, I will criticize, blame, abuse and even insult and mentally control the other half. In the long run, this can not only make family members feel helpless and hopeless, but also make the whole family cold and distant.
Therefore, the father determines the trend of a family, and is the main responsibility of the family's emotional value. In fact, the fate of the child has been decided as early as when the mother chooses the father. In a happy marriage, the children are the beneficiaries, and in an unhappy marriage, the children are the payers. How many children have ruined their children's lives and become victims of family relationships due to depression due to discord in their parents' relationships! The best love for children is a harmonious family relationship.
Its underlying logic is: Father's love is the mother's quiet, the mother's tranquility is the son's peace, the son's peace is the family's peace, and the family's harmony is prosperous. A family is declining: If the father is lazy, the mother will suffer, the mother will be afraid, the son will be afraid, the son will be afraid, and the family will decline, and everything will fail. The old man is immoral, the father is incompetent, the wife suffers, and the son toils.
As long as there is a man in the family who has a narrow cognition, a strong personality, selfishness, and a strong desire for control, it is a disaster! Of course, a father in a family must be responsible, but he also needs to have a virtuous and virtuous wife, otherwise no matter how good the man is, the family will not be at peace. Therefore, if you understand the truth as soon as possible and work hard to manage your marriage, your family will be happy and your children will grow up healthily. Disclaimer: Personal opinion, for reference only.