Which is longer, "love at first sight" or "love over time"?
People are full of curiosity, fantasy and expectation about intimacy, and they often want to get a glimpse of it through fiction.
Romance literature and art have endured as a result.
Love at first sight and long-term love are the ways in which the male and female protagonists fall in love with each other in almost every literary and artistic work.
The former tells a sense of fatalism mixed with romanticism, and love has its own providence; The latter is a long stream of eloquent water, and of course it can also be a mutual affection that does not know each other.
In "The Splendid Stars and the Moon Rises in the Sea", Ling Budo's glance at Cheng Shaoshang for ten thousand years has made many men and women in the world who believe in love at first sight a little more confident that they met that ta?
Looking at Dongfang Qingcang and Little Orchid in "Canglan Jue", from the initial gnashing of teeth to each other's final willingness to sacrifice for each other's beautiful love, how many people believe that "love is not a burden, love is armor"?
Love stems from the relationship and emotion between the two, and some people accompany each other all their lives because of the original personality, and in the days that follow, the feelings become stronger and stronger; The reason why some people can get along for a long time is because of the glimpse of the other party when they first got acquainted, and they deeply remembered the appearance of the other party.
Of course, there are some cases where these two situations are not the case, but based on the between: on the one hand, they will be attracted to each other when they meet, and on the other hand, they will naturally understand and support each other in the process of living together.
Therefore, in the experience of feelings, "love at first sight" and "love over time" will be like two endpoints of a ruler, covering almost all emotional experiences. So as the two most representative ways of getting along, is it "at first sight for life" that can make the two get along better, or "seeing people's hearts over time" can give people a sense of security?
Starts with appearance, does it end with everything?
Wu Guijun, a romantic modern poet born in the 90s of the last century, once said in his work "Like a Person" that liking a person is: "It starts with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character." ”
Just like every pair of male and female protagonists have a unique way of falling in love, we also have our own views on the occurrence of "love" in reality. The author, who has a lot of friends, helped you casually ask a few friends about whether they believe in love at first sight or love over time.
Everyone is a psychologist, has its own set of explanatory theories about human properties as well as things
Love at first sight is a momentary heartbeat
It could be a look back
A smile
Or a chance touch
Like a summer thunderstorm.
It was sudden but unexpected
That feeling of a pounding heartbeat
It seems to make people forget everything in the world in an instant
Love over time is an emotion that accumulates slowly
It does not rely on the impulse of the moment
It's in the bits and pieces of shared experience
Gradually, deep feelings are cultivated
It's like a stream that flows for a long time.
Quietly and silently moisturizing the heart
Accumulation over time
Gradually converge into an ocean of love