The incident originated when actor Sun Li noticed Xiang Haiqing, a poor high school student who was diligent in his studies, during the filming of the movie. Sun Li was moved by his hard work and decided to sponsor him to continue his studies. Sun Li and her mother regularly donate hundreds of yuan to Xiang Haiqing every month. In 2004, when Xiang Haiqing failed to get into university for the first time in the college entrance examination, Sun Li and her mother kept encouraging him to repeat his studies and suggesting that he get into some big city schools. Finally, Xiang Haiqing was admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University in 2005. Sun Li and her mother went to the station to greet Xiang Haiqing in person, and he was surprised to find that it was the big star Sun Li who had been supporting him.
However, after entering the university, Xiang Haiqing began to brag about his funding to his classmates around him in the name of Sun Li, and frequently asked Sun Li for money. Sun Li's mother wondered if he really needed so much funding and went to Xiang Haiqing's school to investigate. She was surprised to find that during that time, Xiang Haiqing had received a national scholarship of 6,000 yuan and a monthly living allowance of 300 yuan for teaching assistants. These funds are enough to support his studies and life. Therefore, Sun Li decided to stop funding him.
However, Xiang Haiqing was outraged by this, and he wrote a long article accusing Sun Li of deceiving the world and stealing his name, and found the reporter ** the incident. After Xiang Haiqing took a year off from school, he tried to get into the civil service after graduation, but was unsuccessful. When applying for a number of jobs, he faced many difficulties, especially because no one was willing to hire him after the "Unthankful" incident was learned by the company.
The emergence of this incident has aroused widespread public attention and discussion. Many people were angry and disappointed by Xiang Haiqing's behavior, thinking that he did not know how to be grateful. Kind people like Sun Li were betrayed and abused, which contained reflections on human nature and touched the conscience of society. Many people are beginning to re-examine the issue of giving and funding, and there are questions about whether good people should continue to support those who are not grateful.
There are many similarities between this incident and previous similar incidents. Cases of grantees like Xiang Haiqing betraying funders are not uncommon. Some refer to such acts as "ingratitude", and the harm caused by such acts to the betrayed is enormous. Many of those who have been betrayed end up feeling fooled and skeptical and hesitant to help.
There is no latest development regarding the development of the whole incident. However, this incident still has a profound impact on society. People are starting to rethink how to deal with the issue of help and funding, and how to distinguish between those who really need help and those who abuse it. People are more cautious when it comes to funding others and pay more attention to understanding the background and realities of the recipients.
This incident raised many questions, and people began to reflect on the meaning of kindness and helping others. What should be done to those who do not know how to be grateful and betray their funders? How can similar incidents be prevented from happening again? What norms and guidelines should be established when helping others? These are questions that require us to think deeply and answer.
Overall, this real event makes people think about the definition of goodness. As sad and disappointing as being betrayed can be, such experiences should not be allowed to deter us from helping others. For those who don't know how to be grateful, we should learn from it and choose our recipients more carefully. Loyalty and gratitude are virtues that need to be promoted in our society, and we should not let the actions of individual people affect our goodness.